In addition to the fact that everything is still very recent, I don’t think she needs daily reminders, she must follow her process, accept it and overcome it and we must respect her and help her if we can do so in any way.
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on this I agree with you and a pain that will never go away…the only way is to live with it… 
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The worst thing is the circumstances, so young, the fucking war…
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True but it’s not our decision how she should give this a place if Amelie asked for it. Is it right? I don’t know but after both posts from Bluewinner, Shojo and all others maybe it’s time for us to let it go now. If they weren’t offline i guess we had more pages of Eros and we wouldn’t talk so much about it now. Bloody War.
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I’m going to step outside this speech for a moment…biden resigned and trump in case he wins says he can end the war in two minutes…(maybe some Americans can believe it but in my opinion it’s just a farce since trump adores putin )…when the war started trump called putin a genius…
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We are in the hands of psychopaths.
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maybe @Grayce218366 must be a trump supporter…
For me, it was post 4854. This one.
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But wouldn’t that decision be up to Amelie? Since she’s asked for those memories, wouldn’t that be respecting her wishes, regardless of whether we might think it would help or hinder?
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Without disagreeing with you, I think @catalonia made a good point worth bearing in mind. A tricky situation to find the right balance where we all feel deeply for Amelie, for the loss of Lucas and our powerlessness over the madness of men who unleash such unnecessary and evil destruction across our World.
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Seems more in the hands of a geriatric department
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If you go up just two posts and click the link, you’ll see that Amelie requested those memories. She said she would love to have them. Don’t you think we should honor her request? It’s her decision to make, even if you don’t agree with it.
I think Amelie, herself, found the balance for us. This is what she said.
“If you can make more videos with me and Lucas, I will be very happy.”
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Yes, which is why I said I wasn’t disagreeing with you but I also think Catalonia made some good points. The fact is we all care 
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As explained by VHTV, war had nothing to do with what happened to Lucas…
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Nor did I disagree with you. Only that everyone grieves differently, in their own way. Maybe this is how Amelie grieves.
Yes, we all truly, deeply care for Amelie, but regardless of how we think or feel, ultimately at the end of the day it is Amelie’s decision to make.
I feel that if anyone doesn’t post these memories that Amelie has requested, because they think or feel it should be done differently, it’s doing her a great disservice. Why would anyone who truly cares about Amelie deny her the precious memories she has asked for?
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