This tattoo is dedicated to Lucas. the inscription is in Ukrainian and translates as «forever in my heart»
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I am pleased to read that you write about him, that you sympathize with me. It you want write about Lucas, you can write
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If you can make more videos with me and Lucas, I will be very happy
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Thank you for your words to us. 
Take the time you need for the new life situation. I don’t think it’s any easier if it’s not safe in your country at the moment.
But believe me. There are many people here who will always be by your and your friends, Oscar and Pearl’s side.
Cheer up, even if it’s hard.
Amelie, you will get through this. I am sure of that. 
Many hugs and lots of love. 
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You are most welcome sweetheart. I am still in shock and disbelief of Lucas’ passing, and the words can’t describe how sorry I am for your loss. It broke my heart when I watched you crying in the middle of the night a few days ago. I can’t even begin to understand what you are going through, but I am certain of one thing that you are strong and you are not going to give in to despair. I know Lucas wants you to be happy and have a full life despite this tragedy. He will live " forever in your heart" and ours. 
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Ánimo Amelie hacemos lo.que podemos para animarte
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It is because of you and of course Lucas himself, that we are indeed able to write about him.
Those of us who have had the honour and privledge to watch your realm for some time, have I am certain, been able to enjoy some lovely moments that you and he willingly shared with all of us.
From my own perspective, I have a number of very fond memories of watching Lucas and I even had a couple of opportunities to exchange some friendly and quite light hearted words with him, here on yours and his forum page, nearer to the time it came into being.
I can assure you (and I know you will understand this), he is not someone I will easily forget.
May you continue to live in as much peace and safety as possible.
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@Amelie_Lucas That is so sweet to hear about ur new tattoo Lucas will never be forgotten by us and I hope and pray u stay safe and and I will always stand behind u and support u always I’m sure a lot of forum members will agree also I know I sound like a broken record but I’m just telling you that I always think about ur safety and u will always be in my heart always
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hello @Amelie_Lucas we users try with a sentence a message a video etc. to do the best we can to be able to cheer you up at this difficult time for you…(if I could I would do it in person but unfortunately we live too far away) so I hope a post of support can cheer you up a little bit even though I can imagine it is a very difficult thing… 
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Mourning, how do you do that?
Anyone who has ever experienced grief will agree: there is no conclusion to one phase, after which you move on to the next. Sometimes you skip a phase. Or do you just hang around. Sometimes you go back to the first phase completely unexpectedly. So every person deals with loss differently.
There are different emotions and reactions you can expect during grief. You may experience, among other things, disbelief, denial, anger, intense sadness, guilt, powerlessness, physical complaints, a feeling of numbness and loneliness.
Every situation and every person is different, so is every grieving process. Yet we see, in the conversations we have with relatives and psychologists and in the research we do, that certain things can help you slowly but surely get back on track.
Tips for grieving include:
get enough rest;
accept and let go of one’s own emotions;
feeling the pain of loss;
seek support from those around you (and be open to this);
talk about it;
seek professional help if you need it;
seeking distraction (listening to music, exercising);
write down your feelings, and
keep looking for company.
These tips can be helpful, but will not always work and/or for everyone. Sometimes you are not ready to talk about the loss, for example. Grief processing also does not happen in one step-by-step motion; it is an erratic process. ‘How do you grieve?’ is therefore a difficult question to which there is no clear answer. But one thing is certain: you can’t do it right or wrong.
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fantastic , just one thing and its to do with your comment , punctuation is important ,as you comment reads that bluewinner is your boyfriend lol . and @shojo will not be happy 
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@Firefly great job absolutly beautifull
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People’s good intentions are taken for granted, but I wonder to what extent it is good to constantly post photos and videos of Lucas, she will always have Lucas in her memory and in her mind, she will not need anyone to remind her, but She will also have to overcome the grief and sooner or later she will have to turn the page, licking the wound is logical and normal for a while but exposing the past before her eyes day after day I don’t think it will help her look forward. It’s just an opinion, other people’s problems are the ones with the easiest solutions. With all my affection to Amelie 
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Catalonia scroll up to 4852 
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amelie said there is no problem with posting videos or photos of her together with lucas…in fact she said she apreciate them very much…
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I have already said that I am not Dr. Freud and I do not believe I am in possession of the truth, I am just saying that your natural process right now will be to lick the wound and wrap yourself in your memories and it is normal and fine, but be careful not to feed this too much. trend.
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Cataluña tiene razón según mi.opinion
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i understand what @Catalonia means..reminding amelie every second with posts and photos or videos of lucas can sink her even deeper…