You don’t have to go to the police just threaten her with it and i would bet you get your phone back you can even show her the evidence 
@San wat bedoel je met :
Ze hebben mij op de zwarte lijst gezet ?
Tea blacklisted me in all messengers, I worded it a little incorrectly, I apologize
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No, those photos were taken on Bird’s phone
I did so initially, but in response I only heard good luck and that she had both the documents and the receipts for the phone, I also showed her a photo from the camera, after that I ended up on the black list
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I’m sorry, I went through it too, some time ago, I hosted a friend of mine in my house for a week, I gave him food, a bed to sleep in, and when he left, he stole my gold necklace that I kept in the drawer… it’s better to forget these people than to find them…
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Warum war sie wieder bei dir wenn ihr euch Nicht mehr so gut verstanden habt ,
Понимаю на сколько больно делают близкие люди когда поступают так. Не давно и у нас такое было,я ее выгнала из квартиры,в ночь,в незнакомой ей стране.по другому не поняла бы думаю.
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I’m so sorry to hear about that @San my heart
breaks for u u are kind warm hearted person don’t forget that u have a beautiful soul I hope this cheers u up and I’m always sending u 
and positive vibes 
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Let the chaos begin. nobody are not angels and I do not regret my actions. San did not clarify many details for you. I We discussed that we would live together before she showed you this apartment. San chose it herself and did not specify any details, she is a rather independent girl and I respect that. But there is always a BUT.Before we moved in together, the financial obligations were divided: San was responsible for paying for the apartment, and I was responsible for food. And as you remember, I fulfilled my obligations in full, just like San.When her phone was broken, I understood that most of San’s work depends on a mobile phone, but I myself did not have the funds, so we agreed that we would buy her a mobile phone with my credit card. We discussed the details of the payments and San agreed with everything. There was no discussion that the phone would be paid for by the rent for the apartment. I never asked San for money. The only money I asked for from her this is so that she pays the minimum payment on the credit card. but since the purchase she has not made a single payment. and all these months she said that she has no money. but let’s look at it from another parties, if San No money for the minimum payment(10$).Then where does she get the money for a new manicure and tattoo?You know very well that it costs much more. We have seen more than once that San has friends, although they rarely come. Wouldn’t anyone have helped her if she had asked? I understood San’s situation and paid myself. But as you may remember, I left the project due to inactivity, but it wasn’t me who decided it, it was decided for me, and what’s funniest is that it was at that very moment when my finances were completely exhausted and I didn’t have even a cent in my pocket. For this reason, I left without my things.San knew about all this. She knew that I had nowhere to go and knew that I had no money. But now, during my entire absence, she never wrote to me, didn’t ask how I was or what was wrong with me. It was me who wrote to San аnd she ignored me.Can you imagine how a person feels who spent all his money for someone, and this person just doesn’t care? But I was broken, I wrote to San more than once and asked to find a compromise, I explained What if there are late payments, the amount will increase, and the loan is issued in my name and I do not need such problems. To which San always said that she has more important expenses than this. I felt Myself empty.The last time we discussed this was the night before I arrived. That’s why I made this decision. Because attempts to talk to San and solve the problem ended with San saying that she didn’t care And I can consider her bad if I want. I didn’t make a scene for her and did as you saw earlier. And I’ll repeat myself once again, I don’t regret anything. I’m not afraid of any threats from the police. I have all the documents Confirming that this thing belongs to me and I am not going to tolerate such an attitude. I would understand her if she gave even less than necessary, the main thing is that they go to pay off the loan,But she refused. And now I say goodbye to you. You can consider me whoever you want. But I will be sure that in this situation I am right.
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Thanks for sharing your side of the issue. I am sure like with all things in life there is no black or white; only different shades of grey.
Maybe you two should start to talk again to find a compromise. Because to be honest I do not think it will benefit each of you if you try to solve your disagreement via a public forum.
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Aussage gegen Aussage würde ich sagen , am besten man belässt es wie es ist, hat eh nichts hier verloren , müssen die untereinander klären !
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hello tea to san I replied to him that it is better to lose them than to find them certain people who behave this way…obviously I was wrong because I only listened to one bell however if I were you I would listen to jabba’s advice… 
Unfortunately, I am no longer going to spend time with San. I have no desire to hold on to a person who doesn’t care about me. Every person has goals in life and my goal is to surround myself with people who I will be important, I don’t know if you noticed, but I was more drawn to San than she was to me. San saw me only as a work partner, and I tried to see something more in her. I believed that we would be good Friends, but I turned out to be wrong.
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Well nevertheless I wish you only the best and hope you will find happiness in life soon
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if there are no insults in the posts, the posts remain in the forum…(the only advice I can give you is try to make peace if you can)…
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San it was bad what ever happened but you shouldn’t be so sad. You will see that something will happen and you will be happy again. Everything happens for a reason. Smile and moves forward don’t stop for things you can have again.
Smile for tomorrow that instead of being sad you will say that everything in life changes and everything becomes beautiful again.
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Tea I think you both need to talk to resolve the issue like civilized people. You may not end up staying together but it’s good for both of you to resolve the issue. I wish you better days to come in your life.
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2nd kitchen messed up @San
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