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That would really be a sensation! 
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It came out harsh (as my other posts in this thread probably did too), especially since it involves the person I love most on this planet.
But⌠I donât like being a lightning rod for someone who just happened to have their planets misaligned, regardless of who they are. When I make a mistake, I can only look at the ground, listen to the criticism, and go fix/clean/resolve the issue. No problem there. But when the bad energy is unjustified, thatâs when I like to shove a rag into her hands and point at a window or the stairs that havenât been washed this week. At first, she looked at me in disbelief, wondering if I was serious, but now she usually bursts out laughing or just turns around and leaves. A little later, you can hear her pounding the beef steaks a bit harder, which just means theyâll be nice and tender at lunch. Energy well spent.
I should also mention the problem of stubbornness, in case I havenât already. I hate it. It belongs in kindergarten, and the âthree days of silence because something didnât sit right with herâ routine doesnât work with me. She tried it maybe twice. When she finally spoke up after three days, asking if we could talk, I asked her why. If she thought it was worth throwing away three days, then a debate isnât necessary now either. For me, the matter is closed, and I donât allow things to be thrown in my face years later. Say it when something is bothering you. Or sleep on it for a day and sit down the next to talk it over. A relationship between two partners must always be equal. You have to fight for a good relationship every day, not just when itâs convenient. Above all, there must be honesty between the two. Unconditional. How else will you solve partnership problems if you donât even know about them, or if they are tailored to suit a narrative?
Both of them made a mistake here. I wonât defend either one. Oscar saw (duh, who didnât) that things were happening outside their rules, and we heard Pearl explain many times that nothing was wrong. It was literally a case of waiting to see âwhat could possibly go wrong.â Turning a blind eye on both sides. 90% of the people on the forum wondered why Oscar didnât put his foot down; he even explained himself once how everything was fine and that he was also benefiting from it. And 99% of the people on the forum clearly saw that something more than just acting was awakening in Pearl, yet her words to Oscar were always, âItâs nothing, everything is fine.â
It unfolded both terribly and great. They split up as enemies, but both moved from a stale, perhaps already weary relationship into new love, each with a new partner, once again with butterflies in their stomachs and joy in anticipation of the next day. In all of this, the most important thing is a happy ending. But that is something they will both have to ensure for themselves.
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I do not see any news of Pearl leaving the project so far⌠
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You mean Pearl is coming back with her own apartment?
In the âContent Updateâ thread, Noldus has already mentioned that Pearl has left the project.
But I wouldnât mind if Pearl were part of the project with her own apartment.
I do not know that. I only see her name removed. If she left the project or not I do not know.
I do not have that information. Maybe he knows more?
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Well, for now, sheâs out of the picture. And sheâs at least left the project at Oscarâor had to leave it for the time being.
But only time will tell.
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Letâs see what will happenâŚ
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Thereâs nothing to add, in the last part of your comment, you explained everything perfectly
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What more than having her name removed do you need ? 
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I bet that someday sheâll beg to go back to Oscar
Now we should welcome the lady in blackâwho is his girlfriendâand hope she adjusts to her new surroundings
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Sorry my bad. I missed refreshing the site at first 
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Psychology and statistics show that this happens very often. However, I wouldnât bet on the same thing happening here. Perhaps it would be best for both of them to spend some time alone, resolve their issues, and determine what each of them wants. I sincerely hope they donât project their problems onto others and draw some positive conclusions from this.
But Iâm about to get blasted for saying it shouldnât be my business, and the truth is, those who do will be right.
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Ich bin fĂźr keine Partei , aber ich denke dass, das Reich wenn es so weiter geht aus lauter Langeweile den Bach unter geht .
just because her names been removed and Oscar no longer wants her , maybe A&L could set up another place for Pearl and whoever or just pearl , that way both sets of supporters can be content
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The fact that Pearl is leaving the project is unsurprisingâit is a purely technical decision. Whether she returns to it in the future as an independent participant depends entirely on her own desires and capabilities.
Mucho enfoque en que va a pasar pero como alguien escribiĂł por ahĂ, pagamos para VER, el foro es secundario, dicho esto, que hay que ver en este apartamento?
Alguien puede sacarse el fanatismo y mencionar que se puede ver hoy en este apartamento?
Significant changes have taken place here. In a couple of weeks, it will become clear what they have led to.