Can we get some peace and quiet here? 
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I 100% agree. The forum is not the right place to deal with relationship matters
So I think Oscar @Pearl_Oscar should keep that private and not wash dirty laundry in the forumsā¦
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And please not a new discussion about who keeps the cat.
I almost need a new mouse from scrolling.
Thank you 
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My God, what nonsense! People theorizing about guilt, about whether or not to shake hands, about being right or wrong. Does it take more than two brain cells to understand two things: 1- This is their life, we have nothing to do with it; 2- Theorizing about who should have done what is so useless, so empty. It simply wonāt lead anywhere, it wonāt fix anything or solve anything. Isnāt it better to waste time discussing something thatās actually worthwhile? I wonāt even say here whether this is right or wrong; itās not up to me to judge anything. They are adults, and each one knows their own reality. Now this talk is getting tiresome. Letās look ahead; Pearlās name can now be removed from this Kingdom. Letās see what the future holds.
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Me voy a enfocar solo el contenido actual del apartamento para no entrar en discusiones, dicho esto, no me gustan los gatos mucho menos un tipo sentado frente a una pantalla asĆ que es hora de seguir camino
I donāt really see what was wrong with what he said. The scene was posted, and he explained his side - what happened and why, how he feels.
People say they want to see real life, but when real life is not pretty or comfortable, suddenly nobody wants to deal with it. Breakups can be messy. Sometimes people are hurt, angry, bitter because they were cheated on, not chosen, or just because things ended badly. They do not have to feel friendly about it.
I think Oscar has every right to feel the way he feels. It is his life. Iām honestly tired of this idea that he should automatically be warm or gracious about everything. He should not. Not everyone reacts softly when they are hurt, and that does not make their feelings invalid. Yes, sometimes tenants do go to extremes with all the drama and details, but a simple short explanation without insults should be fineā¦
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Sure. But I still feel that it would be the best in general if they solve that in private and not take it to the forum. In my opinion it just creates unnecessary drama here and it does not help any of the parties involved in that 
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Certainly, in every respect. No one is denying anyone the emotions they carry within them. It is the way those emotions are displayed that raises eyebrows. Itās visible from space what his statement implies, and it doesnāt bother me if thatās how he feelsāitās a typical reaction. However, it becomes disruptive when itās projected publicly. As Jabbs wrote, and as I mentioned a few days ago, there is no need for public smearing; if they have too much energy, they can meet at an athletic track and burn off that negative energy there.
Whenever my wife comes pumped like that, I ask her if she has a window to washāit would be wiser. And if Iām seething inside, I donāt go on the radio and politicize the injustice happening to me based on the very foundations I built. I go into the garden, dig up a few cubic meters of soil, and in the process, I think about where things went wrong and what can be fixed. Or, we could all be like Trump and burn all our bridges behind us without a second thought, but that isnāt sustainable.
Otherwise, in my own defenseāsince statements here are so often romanticized with the idea that everyone has the right to their own opinionālet the same apply to me. There is no fear of anyone taking me too seriously, so no harm done.
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Itās really simple! Pearlās name has now been crossed off the list. And with that, weāre moving on to a new chapter.
Weāll see what Oscar does with the apartment now, and how creatively he approaches it.
Iāve always liked Pearl. Because sheās a lovely person. But their views on how they want to conduct a relationshipā Open or not. Have simply developed in different directions for Oscar and Pearl. And unfortunately, that can happen sometimes. And I think that nobody really does it on purpose, but sometimes it just happens that way.
You can certainly view the breakup one way or another. Pearl tried again to reach a peaceful resolution. Which I thought was great. That the two of them, at least, talked things through thoroughly one last time.
But Oscar is just very hurt and feels betrayed, which I can understand. And thatās why it turned out this way. And there was no going back, in my view.
And breakups are often painful. So now it is what it is. And this prevents further mudslinging. And there is clarity on both sides.
Now this chapter is closed. And thank goodness itās over. And a new chapter is beginning.
And we can all turn our attention once again to whatās going to happen next. And that will certainly be exciting enoughāIām sure of it.
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and thats the way it should be about everyone , we are all just ghost giving opinions on something we have no control over and none of our buisness really ,The sole purpose of VHTV is to WATCH and the forum is for giving mostly opinions, Facts are just a bonus ,
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Greatly worded 
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if we have learned anything from VHTV particpants break_ups they cant always be permanant just like in real life , every broken relationship is just another open door ,
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Youāre a very brave man 
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I think that if it were up to Pearl, she would still have two loves today
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Thatās exactly how I see it!
But for now, thatās settledāat least for the time beingāand thatās a good thing for everyone involved. And they can focus on the new project.
And I donāt want us to forget about ourselves. Itās really good for us, too, because now all the back-and-forth arguing can finally come to an endā¦! 
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Thatās exactly what some people donāt ( want to) understand
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Pearl would certainly have liked that. But sometimes life isnāt a āriding stableā where you can hop from one horse to another and back again. 
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i find extremely hypocritical from members who ā scream things to be private/explanations or details kept behind closed doors/and saying its none of anyone businessā are the first to text tenants or who ever have any information to know all the details and what actually happen!!! what a circusā¦
i donāt mind things to be private or not, i donāt actually even care about it, but the hypocrisy from certain members shall be addressed one day.
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