The way you talk about voyeurism every single time you mention it just speaks of you as either an absolute opposite to being a voyeur, or just a hypocrite. You could stay truly “voyeur” by your definition: million times before by just simply never visiting this forum or any other discussions around this project. Heck, one can still do it anytime by just watching the VHTV and giving zero fucks about anything besides of the life they can see through our platform.
But no, you’d rather get out of your skin to prove everybody they are doing it wrong.
Here’s a thing. Different strokes for different folks. I personally share an opinion of being voyeur where I watch what I want, how I want, and for whatever reason I want. It’s nobody business but mine.
Anyone is welcome to share this opinion of voyeurism, and everybody is welcome to not tell anybody how to wank as it is none of their business.
that’s the problem with freedom of opinion: some confuse the right to one’s own opinion with the obligation to rub it in everyone’s face, and forget their own right to be able to keep their opinion to themselves
If you asked a random person on the street what is voyeurism, they will almost certainly say it’s akin to spying on someone to get sexual pleasure from them without them knowing that you are there. That’s what voyeurism really is. Now, go and dig out the dictionary definition and tell me that it’s really just a person looking at another person and getting off on them, but that’s not what people really consider to be voyeurism. You do have rules on what the tenants can and cannot do. So, on some level you do understand what I’m saying is true otherwise, you’d end up with the tenants grabbing the cams and working them the same way that a Chaturbate camstar does. Voyeur sites should attempt to mimic the fly on the wall voyeur experience where the tenants act as if the cameras are not there at all. You job as a voyeur site is to try and preserve that fantasy, but you don’t seem to really care all that much. You allow them to cancel the fantasy of voyeurism in all sorts of ways. What your product really is, is Exhibition-HouseTV, where your staff of exhibitionists make their shows for the viewing audience in exchange for viewer payouts. Your model effectively has ruined the term voyeurism and because of that the audience is not filled with voyeurs nearly as much as its filled with people paying to see live action, armature sex shows.
How am I supposed to express my opinion in a public forum in way that doesn’t rub it in your face? Makes no sense. No one is f_____g you to read anything anyone else says.
First of all, who the fuck cares what people think about my desire?
This is Voyeur House. It is a house of people sharing similar interests. If it doesn’t fit your interests, well, it’s totally fine, there’s food and _____, there’s TV running 24/7 in this house and everybody is fine with everyone as long as you don’t bother others.
But it is not okay to come to someone’s house and fuck the s__t up, that’s what I’m talking about. Don’t like the house? Go find the other one. Some people feel like home here, and you have no right to ruin others’ experience by shoving your opinion in their throats. You really think you are in the position of telling people how to be a true voyeur? You are wrong.
And BTW, you don’t even try to counter my argument for what your site really is and how it’s true that you are not really dedicated to preserving a voyeur experience. It’s an exhibition-house. You really should have used that term from the beginning, rather than ruin the term voyeurism.
It seems that this forum isn’t a forum actually. It’s really meant to be a fan club. Just say so and that’s what it will be then and any dissenting opinion can just simply be unwelcome and ripe to be moderated.
“ a place, meeting, or medium where ideas and views on a particular issue can be exchanged.” - Is this what this place is?
Or this
“ a website dedicated to a particular person or subject and run by a fan or fans of the person or subject” - This seems to be what you are saying it is supposed to be. If so, just say so and so it will be.
You’re a broken record now. You can do better, my friend. If your expectations do not meet the reality, it’s not a problem of the reality.
This is a great misfortune that such a great talent of yours to write wise and beautiful words is wasted to stand with “THE END IS NEAR” sign and shout the same old nonsense. The one thing you get right: healthy community follows along. This community is far from healthy and it’s fine. Everybody loves contradictions. But what you are doing now is just trolling. I’m out for today.
Then just do it and ban me if that’s all I am to you. While you’re at it, change the name of the site to Exhibition-House and change the term Forum to Fanpage, and all of your problems will vanish with honesty.
