Lola doesn’t look happy though
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Avec la nuit qu’elle as passée elle doit se posée beaucoup de questions sur son avenir avec lui ou sans lui
Elle a beaucoup de conseils
Lola has a lot of counsellors, but at times you have to decide “out of your guts”
JMO
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Above all, she should ask herself why she values herself so low as to allow a person to manipulate her like this. The problem lies within her. Any woman (or man) who returns to the same embrace after such behavior from a partner needs to work through it within themselves.
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In general, on the first view, I would agree with you.
But there is that second view.
I had to do with domestic violence in my working environment, and when I adressed this same question, why do so many a’bused women go back to their losers, I got the answer, that first of all feelings for a person that one has adapted to, want to be “rescued” and not to be given up just like that. One-time-situation, stressed, won’t do it again are the most popular excuses on both sides.
Then, there is the fear of being “abandonned”, left alone, not having an anchor, and in civil life most used argument, monetary safety, which probably doesn’t apply here.
JMO
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In my profession, the rule is that nothing justifies violent behavior. This isn’t just about physical blows, which sometimes even hurt less than psychological pressure and brainwashing. Bruises heal relatively quickly, but mental states are sometimes treated for years. All these victims come forward with a host of excuses as to why they return to an abusive partner. The most common is that they don’t know anything else, that they are “used to it,” and that it’s not that bad because the partner can also be incredibly kind. All of this is self-deception. In victims whose eyes we manage to open, such a sense of repulsion and contempt for such behavior is awakened that the former partner no longer has any leverage to ever bring that person back under their wing. The threats, promises, or sweet-talking of the abuser only further harden the victim’s resistance.
Only when they reach such a perspective or state do they realize how much guilt lay within themselves for allowing such behavior. Most often, we deal with victims of a.cohol abuse. In the end, a victim will hold their head in their hands and say, “And I even used to go and buy drinks for him myself…” That d.runkard will never approach her again, because he is afraid he would get a bottle smashed over his head.
It’s amazing how much strength victims gain upon realization. But the only problem is that the road to get there is so long…
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It looks like someone urgently needs to use the toilet.
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I totally agree with you, and just to point that out, my post wasn’t rating any behavior of women (and men) in abusive situation, just describing, and it has to be considered as given, that people in feeling-related matters are not always acting rational.
JMO
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Ich finde generell die ganze Lola Story seltsam . Als sie ins Projekt eingestiegen ist hatte sie mehrere Männer am Tag , wenn man es mal so sagen darf ! Von heut auf morgen war dann Teddy da . Anscheinend haben die sich irgendwo kennengelernt, was ja auch schön ist . Es war auch klar dass auf kurz oder lang Lola dass Projekt verlassen wird .
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que va tu faire belle LOLA c’est toi dit dois choisirs et personne d(autre a bientot sur la vie ….
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Completely understandable. People like that find themselves in a difficult situation with no visible way out. There are countless scenarios, but the hardest is when such a victim lacks social support; they cannot pull themselves out alone because, ultimately, they live in constant fear. Especially since exploiters are specialists at killing one’s will. As for where the victim’s surrender usually leads—I’d rather not go there.
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Offline again 
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Perhaps the front door needs to be replaced… 
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Only the lock needs fixing… Most likely something is bend there.
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Not judging Aora but here she lets this guy go under her shorts and rub her ass. He moves to her crotch and she gets a big smile on her face and jumps away. Why does she even let that happen if she is committed to Paladin? I understand it’s hard with no sex from the one you live for so long, but that’s wrong.
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None of your business to decide what is right or wrong. If you are so narrow minded I recommend watching the Disney Channel
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