Many decades ago, I was renting a house and decided to open my home to a coworker who needed a place to stay. What harm would it cause, given that we got along so well at work? A few months later, I found out.
What an insufferable prick he had become, and a slob at that. I found myself in a toxic situation that I brought upon myself. What to do without ruining our working relationship?
I decided to terminate my lease on the house and move on because my mental health was and is priority one.
I am not under the impression that I understand the commitments, contractual agreements, blah blah blah she may have with the powers that be, or that my experience is the same as Aora’s, or that she should pack up and leave as I did, but the dynamics that I’ve observed triggered a memory that I have long forgotten about.
Something has to come to a head because, at the end of the day, one’s mental health and quality of life should come first and foremost.
One should sleep in one’s own bed and not worry about the boogeyman hiding in the closet.
Just words of encouragement: Stay focused and don’t lose sight of your personal goals; block out the background noise as best you can.
I have a sneaky feeling that if all goes to plan (as outlined by Aora a while ago) and Paladin returns in November, neither he or Aora will stand for any nonsense / undesired attention from anyone.
To clarify, by “anyone”, I am speaking of unwanted guests in their apartment.
Well now, I just got back home after doing some running around. So, I read Lzzy was packing. I can’t see if she’s in the bedroom and or if she has moved her stuff out. If she is/has in fact moved out I’m wondering if she went to Hakon’s place. I’m guessing he has one. But, it makes me also wonder how long that relationship will last considering the “issues” that have occurred over the last while.
I don’t know what happened, as I’ve only read some of the messages, but I think VHTV should be a peaceful and friendly place where everyone can enjoy themselves freely. Whatever frustrations or personal problems people may have, I believe they should be dealt with away from the public eye of the cameras. I remember that in the past, some members who behaved in genuinely unacceptable ways were removed from the project, and I don’t think viewers want to see that kind of behaviour. Honestly, it’s been quite some time since Izzy has entertained us the way she did in the beginning, and I absolutely don’t want to judge her or pile on her, but I have noticed that her physical appearance seems to have changed quite a lot in a relatively short time. It could simply be a difficult period in her life, and of course it’s not for me to determine the reasons behind it, let alone suggest depression without knowing anything about her personal situation. Beyond that, my point is simply that I don’t like watching scenes involving violence, aggression, or tension. Whether Izzy is going through a difficult time or not, VHTV should, in my opinion, remain a pleasant place where people can have fun, relax, and enjoy themselves.
At least Izzy’s luggage is in the hall. You can see it in the mirror. What does that mean in the end? Perhaps she’s moving into her own place, but I don’t know. Only Paladin will probably be back soon, I imagine. And by then at the latest, everyone else apart from Aora will have to be gone. That’s my idea, anyway.
You want the project to be a peaceful place. But yet you judge people just by your observations. Stop speculating about the mental and / or phyiscal health of participants and / or guests and let Aora and Izzy figure out the situation by themselves. They are grown adults and can do that. They do not need the advice of other people.
Look, my friend, I didn’t offer advice—I only shared my opinion. What I see, however, is you picking on me, emboldened by the fact that you’re behind a computer screen. Basically, you’re just a keyboard warrior. Take your act elsewhere—you aren’t scaring anyone here—and leave me alone. I simply expressed my opinion in a calm manner. That said, stop the provocation; this is a forum where everyone—and I mean everyone—is free to express their views. Besides, far harsher things have been said on this forum. So, you’re just singling me out. I repeat: leave me alone. With that, I thank you and bid you farewell.
Also aus der Ferne betrachtet sehe ich dass fast auch so . Entweder ist es einfach nur Show um an Aufrufe zu gelangen (was nach einer Zeit langweilig wird )oder sie ist so .
Ich persönlich finde sie kindisch und nicht reif für dass Projekt hier (sie hat paar Vorgeschichten) . Ist aber nur meine Meinung vom Bildschirm aus .. kann auch total falsch liegen
Lets just let Aora figure things out without ppl putting their spin on something that we know nothing about until and or if Aora gets on here to talk about if she don’t then this should be put to rest and move on and give Aora and Izzy the space they need to figure things out
Right or wrong, that doesn’t mean I can’t express my honest opinion. Don’t worry, perhaps we’ll understand each other better now, because I have the feeling that someone might have misunderstood.
I was not blaming you. We want this forum to be a nice place for everybody. Viewers, participants, guests and yes even for the admins
It is just not nice when participants and / or guests get judged just by what we see when it is about physical and / or mental health. These are serious topics and should be treated very sensitve.
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