You are completely correct as to I am no expert on domestic violence but it does not take an expert to know something is wrong and does not belong on this site. The fact that you as a victim associate it being normal also makes you not an expert. As for Savannah writing what she did, well you don’t have to be an expert to know she perceives it as normal just as you did as a kid. We can agree to disagree on certain aspects but know that it has to be addressed.
You somehow misunderstood me, probably a language barrier. I don’t think it’s the norm, I’ve already described it above, in as much detail and clarity as possible. What I am telling you is that I have an idea of how domestic violence works, and how to identify it (difficult if the victim is cooperating with the a___er). Don’t get into the “I’m not an expert, but it’s obvious here” position. It’s not. If you’re hurt by what’s going on in a particular realm - you don’t have to look. I - can’t pretend it’s not there by just kicking people out of the project.
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Ok thanks. And by the way I have put those with violence on my no view list, a small insignificant steps perhaps but that is the least I can do. As always good to discuss things with you. Enjoy your evening.
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Nice talking to you, too. You have a good time, too.
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I agree with @anon31605929 views on this and would also thank @Handsdown for starting this really important thread.
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All these philosophical debates seem fine to me, but the only thing I hope is that when Macy’s apartment is reconnected, the bastard who beat up his partner is gone, I don’t care what happens to him, which I hope is that the VHT door closes in his face. I wait impatiently.
warum werden immer die falschen bestraft. ganz einfach der schläger muss raus und kein anderer.
You’re asking a strange question. They come as a package. These are not random people - they lived together before the project, came on it together and will leave together too. This isn’t Big Brother.
And I think that touches the core of the issue we’re having here. Some people seem to have a different understanding of the difference between the concept of this project, voyeurism, contra a directed TV-show. For me, that difference is very clear, and I think you are already doing alot. 
RLC, for example, follows a much strickter non-intervention line.
Here’s a question to ponder for the conscientious perverts out there. If there was not a support button, or any way to reach vhtv, what would you do when you see violence, illegal, or otherwise inappropriate behavior of vhtv? If this forum still existed would you still carry on about it here? Screaming at the wind! If this forum didn’t exist, what would you do then?
Sure there is bump in violence on vhtv, but there is also a lot of damsel saving and speculative nit picking going on in these forums too. It’s becoming overwhelming all over the place and vhtv does what they do to cater to your concerns. It’s getting to the point where I think many of you are looking for anything to make a stink about. You want vhtv and your friends here to pat your back and give you a thumbs up for your good deed. So much of this forum is becoming about that. Vhtv needs to do what it thinks it needs to do to curb violence in the apartments behind the scenes, but they also need to curb its members appetite here from trying to influence what happens in the apartments. But how? By not including the members on the actions taken and the resolution. By not discussing it at all. They need to make it so reporting wrong doing earns them nothing more then getting the cams cut and hope it’s being taken care of. Then when the cams come back up not saying anything to the members except for one simple statement, “the issue has been addressed to the best outcome of the project”. That’s it! Nothing more. Move on.
Ebo is just trolling. The rest of us got a clear answer from CEO. We’re not all here just to get attention, some of us were seriously concerned. It was clear to some how sistem works, to some it was not.
I hope this clarifies at least my views.
Well Jeffrey is Amy the forums troll being back again.
So do not feed it 
Take some good advice, don’t be seriously concerned. Bad things happen all over the world. You don’t know all of the facts. You’ll only end up making yourself sick over it, especially when you realize that nothing you get vhtv to do about it is going to really change anything for them, especially if they get kicked out.
What are you talking about? You sound paranoid.
First of all, there hasn’t been a bump in violence, there has been a b___dy escalation in violence, stop trivialising what has been happening in some apartments recently. Why are you so hell bent on trying to shut down feedback from viewers, why shouldn’t they be able to voice their opinions on a subject that is causing concern. It seems to me that you and a handful of others would prefer to bury your head in the sand and pretend it doesn’t exist. I noticed that you didn’t bother to respond to my question when I asked you if you worked for VHTV, I guess your silence said it all.
Why do you keep on bringing it up - it’s being dealt with. That’s it! Nothing more. Move on.
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Maybe someone needs to lock the thread.
I can do it if you want?
Don’t feed the troll. 
I think it’s been discussed to death, so might be a good idea, but before you do, it would be good to hear if others are in favour of having it being locked.