Maybe I am the minority but for me she (Kaydence) is not sexy or hot at all.
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Everyone has their tastes and you donât need to find everyone attractive but Iâm baffled that you think this is a normal thing to write when itâs very possible that the person you are talking about can read it. Now you didnât go as far as to call her ugly so I donât think you are being offensive but surely that is something better kept to yourself
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My first login for a few days now, still nothing worth the effort of watching really.
The whole site seems to have gone to pot lately.
Mostly boring anyway.
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I was polite and stating my preferences. I donât see a problem here.
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He is just expressing his opinion like we all do pal.
And that is your view. 
Could be construed as slightly insulting but an opinion is an opinion nevertheless.
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Are you guys for real? He said he doesnât find her hot and that is insulting???
Are you all gone crazy? What is this, the âwe can only speak about good stuffâ association?
SnowflakesâŚ
I wonder how many people will now be offended.
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@robwin will be, I heard he likes to be the only snowflake in the village. 
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You must be joking, seems to be rules for many and not others it seems 
Câmon people be reasonable. Go in to Henry topic. â_____er, smoker, pervert, relationships/liver destroyerâŚâ, you name it. Thatâs what people are sayint about him in his topic.
But I canât see any insulting drama? Why?
And then someone writes that a woman isnât sexy to him and itâs called an insultâŚ
Why are certain things permitted or normally accepted in some places, but denied in others, albeit in a much kinder, more human form?
I donât jump around my wife all the time and lie to her about how she has the most beautiful haircut in the galaxy every second, because thatâs just not true.
If she asks me in the morning how her hair is and I tell her to brush it because it looks messy, itâs not my problem if sheâs offended because Iâve only said what I feel. But because she is a normal person, she jumps up to the mirror and sees for herself. And if she needs to, she uses a comb, or whatever she feels like. Without any resentment.
I realise that I am not the most popular person here and when someone accuses me of anything I can go cry in a corner, I can learn Wikipedia by heart and go into meaningless name-calling and bickering. And I play the offended c___d with phd knowledge.
OrâŚ
I read it twice and think about what has been said. I may learn a truth hitherto unknown to me. If I really disagree with what is said, I will use reasoning that is the product of my experience, not Google, Wiki, or some other impersonality.
And often such âfightsâ turn into an interesting debate.
Then Jabbs comes along, marks it offtopic and deletes itâŚ
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I can only write my opinion on this. About Henry: people simply write what every single one of us can seeâŚthe not deniable reality about his various habits.
About calling a woman (with whom you donât have a personal or close relationship like you have with your wife) not sexy or hot (basically ugly) it is at least rude (if not insulting)
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I totally understand you, but you must understand if some girl is not hot for me, thatâs my truth. I can be quiet, or I can say the truth.
I will give an example.
I ask you in the topic if you find xxxxx hot. And you donât find her hot.
You have three options. You are silent. You lie. You tell the truth.
Which will you choose? Will your answer of truth be an insult? Or just your feeling?
For example, I would choose silence. If my answer is really required, then definitely the truth.
When a neighbour asked me for a tool that was worth quite a lot to me, I said no, because then I would have to beg for it, and wait⌠He didnât speak to me for a year.
I could have lied about not having it or something. The truth showed me a man who appreciates me just because I have something he doesnât have.
A seemingly unrelated matter actually has quite a lot in common. Who to trust and who not to trust. We all want to be told the truth, but it is much harder to accept it. And the one who knows how to deal with it, has my respect.
I understand Jabbs answer is rude for some. But he chose truth over silence or lies. And he didnât choose really offensive words, like ugly, disgusting. To me, she is, in his words, an average girl. Like most women on this planet.
Iâm talking about looks. Women are otherwise divine beings to me. The most beautiful creature of God.
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I also wrote âfor meâ so that is my opinion. Leaving the opportunity for others to disagree. I did not say she is ugly. She is just not my type. That is all.
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In most cases, by my nature, iâll try to be polite first. So i will probably say that sheâs not my type. I will lie only if i a woman asks me directly if sheâs beautiful and i donât see her that way. Even more if i donât know her personally. Iâll probably call her pretty⌠
In this case, Jabs probably used some unfortunate words and nothing else. And yes, off course that he can have his opinion like every single one of us does
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Yes, thatâs more polite as ânot sexyâ. Also my choice of words.
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Didnât this explain it?
Personally I donât see how ânot sexy for meâ is insulting, just not his cup of tea
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I donât see what all the fuss is about
why he get fat soooo fast
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