Tom took the kitten to grandma’s, due to the separation of my friends, because the guy said that he didn’t need the kitten, but in any case, we found somewhere to take her, and there Bun will be safe and well-fed
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I grew up with enough cats to notice that a cat is not stupid and has a self-preservation instinct. Fortunately, cats don’t need excessive supervision like some people do.
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Well, it’s probably because of the visit that San’s kitty is in her panties.
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In my opinion, I think she must be waiting for the guy that she was intimate with at Tristan‘s house to come over there. I hope I’m right.
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I really hope not!
If you say that because you want to see some sex, I can understand but I would be very sorry.
As I’ve said before, the guys @San dated when she was at Tristan’s apartment were pretty clear that they only wanted one thing from her…
If you seek San’s well-being, you would hope with me.
The fact that San left the dog to Ledian (the boy you were talking about) is quite clear that an important relationship remained between them, but I would like it to remain just friendship.
I’m pretty sure at the moment, their relationship is always strong and will probably go as you say: there are moments that make you think of Ledian’s return, I imagine too, and I also understand San who is probably waiting for him to return.
But as I already said, I wouldn’t want to see any of the guys who were at Tristan’s again, because they were all exploiters towards San like many others who passed through the apartments, selfish and boring (besides the sex, did you see some caresses, kindness, did they ever done something around the house or helped @San ?).
Sorry if I don’t have a good report on them, but I would prefer something much better.
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I understand your opinion and position, but you can’t decide what’s best for San and what’s not. Yes, and no one knows what connects them so much and what they have outside the project, if San trusted him so much, it means that they have something warm between them besides sex😅
Yes, I agree, friends, when they care and make you happy, it’s always good, but we would also like to see San in love, I don’t understand why there is such a flurry of negative statements here on Ledian, if it’s her choice, then why don’t we accept it?
I never said that I want to decide for her, or maybe I have such power that I didn’t realize?
In every message I wrote, I always underlined “I would like to” and between possibility and certainty, there is an abyss.
San is free like never before, and she can obviously do whatever she wants.
I already wrote what you are saying in a previous message.
The forum allows you to see all past messages, it would be enough to read previous messages or those I wrote from my profile to avoid making these statements.
However, for your information, I’ll rewrite it:
About 4 days ago:
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HI,it’s my feeling due to what I saw during @San 's stay in Tristan’s apartment.
Ledian from the beginning it was more than obvious that he only wanted sex. The attitudes of love and relationship were not present and even the looks with San did not have that romance or interest that you perceive when you really like a person. On multiple occasions, Ledian always put his interests and requests ahead of what San wanted. On one occasion it seemed that she wanted a threesome with friends (one of the first times in your relationship), not understanding San’s disinterest. If I were San, If I always have to worry about what my partner thinks or I have the doubt that he doesn’t respect me, I wouldn’t want to have him as a partner.I also don’t have a good opinion of other men who passed by Tristan’s house, Tristan first and foremost, because I would say that towards San he was anything but a friend, due to his attitudes.
San doesn’t seem like a girl who wouldn’t want to fall in love, but up until now she has often let herself be carried away by the requests and wishes of others. And every now and then, I saw sadness.But this is my opinion, just as I consider Tom an excellent companion, because when I see how Tom looks at San, I see someone who respects her and listens to her in her heart.
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You didn’t understand the meaning of my words. I’m not telling you that Ledian can also feel love for San and it can also be mutual. What I’m saying is that in terms of character and daily gestures, it’s not my thing and I wouldn’t be interested.
It is obvious that there is no direct connection between character and love, otherwise in this world, at least half of the people would be alone…
Many people love being with selfish, frugal, material or unpleasant partners, but that doesn’t mean there can’t be love. It really depends on what you are looking for and what you see in the other person close to you.
We could talk for hours here…
Mine is just an observation regarding what I see as a difference between San in his apartment and San from Tristan.
Here I see her smile, often and a lot.
San is not glued to the computer or the phone and she interacts little, as happened in the other apartment.
Tom helps her around the house, makes the bed, cleans and prepares meals for San, plays with the cats and everything else… and makes her laugh, a lot.
It just seems like a better environment and better people than before.
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I repeat once again, you cannot decide for San what is good for her and what is bad for her, if she fell in love with Ledian, that means there is a reason. Yes, undoubtedly Tom is good now, but it seems to me how long he will achieve reciprocity and if he achieves it, then all this mask will disappear from him If what they say is true and Ledian comes to San, then I would be very happy about it I understand your opinion and experiences, but even San shows that there can be nothing but friendship with Tom and she is waiting for Ledian
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Depends on how many tokens you send them. Everyone has their price. Even you and me. 
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I repeat, I don’t pretend or want it to be, but it is WHAT I WOULD LIKE. If I use the conditional, there must be a reason, right?
This is a forum where everyone expresses their opinions, what they would like or think. If there are problems with the webcams or anything, they can report it. Sometimes apartment tenants can also interact with forum members, but this is personal and does not always happen.
The tenants are VERY FREE, they do not deny being commanded by us. They can get information or be helped in some way by us, but they know very well that our “help” is severely limited to a few lines of a message often thrown there as comfort or approval of what they are doing.
Just last night Martha had sex with Alexander in Art’s apartment and I don’t know if you know the story, but Alexander had BEATEN, PULLED and THROWN Marta to the ground less than a month ago (if you want you can find out more about the story). In that case, for some time already some members of her had warned her that Alexander was just a selfish and not serious towards her, but being her advice, she martha she continued her path with Alexander . Then after a month of breaking up, what happened last night? Martha went to Art’s apartment and they had sex.
So, think about how much we can change or modify the lives of tenants…
However, as a conscience and for the little affection we can find towards the tenants (like San and others), we cannot redeem ourselves by having our say.
So, yes, I understand you and I partly approve of what you say.
If San has feelings for Ledian it is good that she continues her path, because it is her choice.
Would I feel sorry for her? Yes, but life goes on, both for me and for her, and for all of us. 
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I don’t understand what the example of other people is for, people are different, you only see the bad in them, if a person (like Tom) has a good attitude right now, this does not mean that this will always continue People are inherently not ideal, they are evil, greedy, kind, etc. So why can you say Ledian is worse then? Or better? Let it go as it goes, I hope for the continuation of that love story…
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Looks like it’s not camera 09 in the bathroom.
@San bathroom and badroom 
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The example of other people was to make you understand, with an extreme example, how influential we are… not very influential.
I am a psychologist by work and perhaps this is why I try to see the behaviors, attitudes, gestures and relationships in general between various people. Perhaps this is also why I am particularly interested in those daily facets in which others are little or not at all interested.
I repeat, it is my opinion, which has very little influence, and I agree with you that people change.
However, I can tell you that a stable and certain base is present regardless of change, and that is what depends on our basic character.
To bring about a change in our basic character requires a real shock that goes beyond the relationship with others.
To make you understand, San’s friend who is pregnant will certainly have a lesson from this story, she will certainly have a change in her character and in her attitude towards males, because her story will lead her to choices of greater protection; but temperamentally, if she is a cheerful, sunny person, rather than selfish, carefree or materialistic (I’m putting hypothetical sides, obviously because I don’t know her, it’s just an example), these will not change, because they are only fundamental elements of the character of each of us .
Just as if a person is violent towards others, he may suppress the attitude, but sooner or later it will come back out.
That’s all.
I’m closing the topic, a hug
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Thank you for the reply. This is good news!
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It’s not “drama.” It’s concern. People who care about animals understand the possible bad outcomes that can happen. It (bad things) has happened on this site several times.
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I am sorry to be so late in this response.
Could Tristan have been running his Realm as a porn site, pushing his guests to focus on sex to pull more views IE money?
So that we really had no idea of their true personality
Ledian may be a very nice guy in person, but we will never have that connection, so San sees him better than we do!