Oscar & Pearl

Unless you are a laywer (and can use it on foreign) and she wants to press charges there is nothing else you (viewer) can do besides stop watching this place if and when is back

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Sorry to say, but thatā€™s because she is ā€œblindā€ (and not saying this like saying itā€™s her fault. But itā€™s always like this, on this case the victim lives totally away from reality and canā€™t see the evidences in front of her eyes). She will need professional help to pull her back from that dark road. Someone will have to tell her (and will take time) that itā€™s not her fault

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Wise words indeed Sparkles.

Hi Amelie,
you should adviseTelma, if she forgives that fucking dickhead, he will do it again and again. I guess Telma has low self-esteem, you need to work on it with Telma. She doesnt need that kind of man in her life.
Anyway, Amelie you seem to be a nice person
huge hug for you, luca and Telma

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One word: RESPECT.
It means thĆ© same in English, Deutsch, Nederlands, Francaisā€¦

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ŠŸŠ¾Š²Š°Š³Š° in Ukrainian.

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Was visible (specially on her eyes) that he was the only one playing

Heā€™s not suitable for a free social life, forget the project!

Wow I just read what happened and my :heart: goes out to Thelma no woman should go through that a woman should be treated with respect my heart just :broken_heart: for her I hope Thelma is okay :pray: and gets away from him she deserves to be treated like a queen as every woman should beā€‹:heart:
Thelma is beautiful :smiling_face_with_three_hearts::hugs:

If she keeps seeing him it will happen again, realm or not realm.
Itā€™s so sad to see the sick, yet known and recurring, behaviour of women who get beaten up and still hang on to the guy, with a mixed feeling of guilt and misinterpreted love.
She needs to get out of the tunnel!
But she needs help to do it.

I agree with you but we viewers more than just report it, we canā€™t do anything elseā€¦

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Iā€™m just glad she wasnā€™t alone with him. And there are witnesses.,

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we can do something. by standing by their side. because that will definitely help Thelma. Because you know there are people who support you! but it doesnā€™t help if we patronize her, because she has to go the way into the future decide!

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Hello, guys, itā€™s Lucas here. I have read your messages, I understand what happened. Itā€™s a big shame for our realm, this young man has really disappointed me and disrespected everyone of us by doing such a stupid and violent act. I could not expect that from him.
From here, the war zone, the only thing I can do is to ask for your forgiveness, this will never happen again.
I use violence every day here, and itā€™s being used against me and my people too, itā€™s normal for me, but I truly condemn using it against women, especially in my home, when Iā€™m not even there.
I have some people who can meet this boy (canā€™t call him a man) and I can assure you that they will explain to him that hitting woman, especially if she is my close friend, is a bad idea.
In conclusion, I want to say thank you to you, who has lightened up this situation for me, and I am truly sorry for what you have witnessed. I will make sure that he leaves soon, after packing his stuff.

P.S. Iā€™m writing this message so close to russians you could not even believe :sweat_smile::joy:. Counteroffensive goes well, but, unfortunately, comes with a high price.
Thank you for your attention.

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Stay safe and kick their asses.

Š”Š»Š°Š²Š° Š£ŠŗрŠ°Ń—Š½Ń– :ukraine: :muscle:

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Hello My Friend Lucas we miss you !! We wish you stay well and come back soon to us & Above all to Amelie. Unfortunately these can happen anywhere & we sincerely understand that. We wish Telma a full recovery & to see you all together again !! Take care Lucas !!

:1st_place_medal:

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Lucas, Iā€™m really sorry for what happened yesterday. It never occurred to me that anything like this could happen, especially to you. It was always great to see you and Telma together. In the last 1 week, Arnold has been behaving more and more violently, unfortunately it occurred to me last week that this could get worse when Telma already received a bigger blow. Donā€™t worry so much about this now, itā€™s not your fault, youā€™ve always been correct about everything! I wish you more success and perseverance, I hope you come back to Amelie and Telma as soon as possible! Can you possibly provide information about Telma, how is she?

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Well spoken mate stay safe

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Iā€™m the one who should be upset. Iā€™m not holier-than-thou. You tried to make me the bad guy in this situation, when it was your words that caused the problem. Iā€™ll jump everytime someone tries to take advantage of me and bully me into the one whoā€™s wrong.

These are your own words from just one post.

ā€œPerhaps these women if they are so worried should put some clothes on, or not get _____ and then get into bed naked with men they donā€™t know.
They all are practically inviting unwanted attention and then complain when they get it, ā€¦They all know what to expect when they come into these apartments so perhaps if they are that worried then take some responsibility for their actions.
ā€

And, thatā€™s just one post. And, before you jump down that ā€˜out of contextā€™ rabbit hole again, this is word for word what you wrote. I only left out the words you added about the moral police, which are completely irrelevant and donā€™t change the meaning of what you said.

Every word in that quote is the exact opposite of ā€˜no means noā€™. What they do is make the victim guilty, every word. They blame the victim by saying she was dressed the wrong way, or she had too much to _____, etc., etc., when the real problem, the only problem, was the asshole who refused to take no for an answer.

The blame falls solely on his head and no one elseā€™s. And, most assuredly not anywhere close to my head.

Thank you for your wishes, Solaris. Iā€™ve noticed heā€™s a bit violent, but I never thought he would do this on the project.

Physically, Thelma is not totally normal, she needs some recovery. But nothing serious has happened, I mean in global. Sheā€™s depressed and now she spends time with people who can help, so she will be okay very soon.
Arnold is not staying in our home, I canā€™t let Amelie be around him, so heā€™s packing up already.

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