So I like watching how others in the house masturbate with the dildoes (e.g Artem - I lov him!) but I 've never done it in the reality. This is extremely hot so I do not have a patience! So are there expereinced guys who use dildoes and can tell me what to choose? Thinking of having this one but I’m not sure about it.
Well you stuck it on a wall or other surface and put in your pussy. Might use lube before… Maybe they should include an instruction manual for girls like you 
Start small, closer to 1 inch diameter (the one you linked to is closer to 2 inches which is pretty thick for a beginner). Use plenty of water based lubricant. Preferably one with a menthol desensitiser ingredient. which will make insertion more comfortable though feel a little cold. Warm the dildo beforehand so it’s softer and not such a shock going in. anal tissue is very delicate and if you try shoving anything big up there first time you could tear the tissues and that is not pleasant. Make sure to clean the the dildo afterwards with an antibacterial hand soap. Take it slow. don’t f___e it in. Don’t give up if you can’t get it in first time. but with a smaller narrower dildo you should be okay. The more you use it the more relaxed your sphincter will become. essentially stretching to accommodate the dildo. Have fun. 
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I think you may have got the wrong idea.