Meantime over at Mira’s…Relaxation! 
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Carlos, the fucking lighting director of VHTV. Someone is good enough to post pictures and videos in black and white and he can do is give a 
. ! In all my life I don’t think I’ve ever seen someone have such a negative impact on a forum he is! Never mind the disrespect he shows to those that post anything in black and white! But then I know he loves to annoy people from behind his keyboard in his moms basement.
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Another asshole that doesn’t know how to treat a good woman.
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In 2017, the Duma, Russia’s legislative body, decriminalized domestic violence that does not require hospital treatment. Under the law, if domestic violence leads to bruises or “minor” injuries, then there is no punishment for the offender. It is only when domestic violence causes such severe injuries that it sends the victim to the hospital does it become a criminal act. First-time offenders often receive fine of only 5,000 rubles (US$88).
One in five Russian women face domestic abuse every year. In 2018, 5,000 die at the hands of their abusers. The problem is disproportionately severe in Russia, where a state-sponsored culture of machismo and isolation has eroded what few protections survivors had left. Of all those who die from domestic violence each year, 10 percent of them are in Russia, a country which makes up less than 2 percent of global population. A dismal 10 percent of Russian women who are ■■■■■■ go to the police, and only three percent of those cases ever make it to court. The failures of the police are part of a larger systematic failure of the Russian government to protect women.
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I don’t see it that simple.
Violence clear NO in capital letters.
But the lady isn’t as good as she looked first imo.
The whole night she was trying to direct what guestguy and later the others were doing. She herself didn’t even take her panty off.
She directed guestguy to fuck Zoja in the first place, even stuck his dick into her cunt and cheered him up to fuck her harder.
After a while, nobody was listening to her “orders” and she got pissed, like a kid, that didn’t get it’s toy. She started yelling in the bathroom and in the guestroom, while Henry and guestguy tried to get her to lower her voice.
Without knowing the language it looked to me, that when guestguy fully dressed was sitting on the bed in guestroom, she didn’t want to go, and started new discussions in the hall later.
Bottom line for me:
In my environment people would have said, she asked for a slap as the last efficient way to get her to behave decent.
That does not reflect my opinion, that violence is no solution, or dissolves problems, rather than creating new ones.
Just want to say, she did nothing to avoid it. The guy lost his patience, which he shouldn’t have.
All of course JMO
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Mental Note : Always read the text before looking at the video.
I did not see it coming… I felt the pain
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Well, let’s see. Henry provides the alc ohol…for free. Henry allows everybody to get dru nk out of their skulls, and God only knows what else. Henry stands by and watches, even walks away from, a guy being very aggressive towards a girl, and did absolutely nothing to intervene.
And, whatever she might have done to the guy is no excuse for his aggressiveness, or his violent, physical assault against her.
This is Henry’s apartment. He is responsible. At the very least, the moment he saw that guy getting aggressive with that girl, he should have handed his hallowed, beloved drink to the redhead, got been between them and ushered the guy out the door. If he got punched, that’s his fault too, for allowing all the stuff mentioned above to happen in the first place.
But, Henry is a gigantic coward, and he and his country condone violence against women. We’ve even seen him do it himself.
Being an alcoholic is bad enough, but allowing men to assault women and doing nothing about it is beyond cowardice. His pusillanimous behavior against aggressive and violent assaults by men, not only makes him selfish and weak, but also shows he has no moral courage. He most likely doesn’t intervene against that kind of behavior because then he’d have to adjudicate himself for the same actions.
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which is the reason for my comment to him.,dont give him what he wants , 
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when i read all these comments about henry should of done this or henry should of done that makes me surprised how many members dont understand the concept of VHTV . *real life- real people , and if you dont think these minor incidents that you drama queens blow out of proportion everytime , im not saying its right , but it happens all over the world in some countries more than others , but again thats life ! shit happens get over it !! , you see worse on reality tv shows , but i bet you dont contact the tv bosses complaining , No you sit there on your keypads thinking your perfect in every way , *newsflash your not! , domestic disputes are going to happen , shit i bet 90% of you have been involved in one at sometime or other , what happens on vhtv forum is one person becomes opiniated then others use that comment as a platform to make themselves feel *holier-than -thou i dont care if this comment gets facepalms or thumbs down or if it offends you i say what i see . yes ive i joked about teflon henry in the past but thats all its been jokes , now ive really wound some of you up by now , and got you frothing at the mouth , ready to chew my ears off, your fingers itching to get typing ready to bombard me with expletives . *REMEMBER !! i am just an avatar a very very old avatar . you cant see my face nor can you hear my voice ,so you will never be able to tell wether im being serious here or not 
, GOOD LUCK WORKING THAT OUT !!! 
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The girl was hardly drin_k_ing that night.
Doreen later in a conversation with the girl said that maybe it is better to rest if you are coming down off that pill.
The girl was high and we don’t know where the pill came from but it is easy to blame Henry I guess, but we don’t know that he gave it to her, but I doubt he did.
She had already slapped him round the face beforehand in the bedroom and was aggressive towards him when Henry wasn’t there.
I agree, but dealing with a pilled-up girl like that after she was controlling for most of the night directing everything uncontrolled and unhinged, the guy flipped and dragged her out of the apartment - he never once hit her, yes he was aggressive when pulling her out of the door and it looked really bad and I don’t condone it, but that point had exceeded the guy’s level of patience and he snapped.
Totally agree, but answer me honestly, if you had that situation between a couple in your place would you intervene when there was no violence from the boyfriend before that point? All the way through what happened even when he was slapped on the face he was saying he loves her and wants to take her home so that she can rest and get over this. She wanted to stay there but he said I cannot sleep in a strange place and I want to sleep in our own place with the woman I love.
As I said, I in no way condone him pulling her out of the apartment like that, but it had got to a point where she was totally unhinged and irrational.
As in all things here it is easy to jump to unsubstantiated conclusions but if that is all you have then I suppose it is understandable, but everyone needs to keep a balanced approach to things if you do not understand the language or what happened or the reason why it happened.
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its not very often i find myself agreeing with you , but for once you have hit the nail on the head , perhaps this new you as become wiser (that was a below the belt pun for old times sake)
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Henry is geen enkel uur van de dag nuchter .
Hoe kan je dan de controle hebben over je appartement ?
Daarbij zit hij zelf aan de drugs .
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Care to back that up with facts?
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This is a lot of bullshit.
Some of it maybe is from one point of view but he has presented it well along with a lot of good points and hardly bullshit. I may not of agreed with some of the points and I took time out of respect for him to give another perspective - maybe you should do the same and be less combative? 
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I would have intervened the moment he started getting aggressive, when he was up in her face. I wouldn’t have been off in the kitchen refilling my drink. And he did slap her. Here’s a piece of the video that was posted. I slowed it down at the point he hit her.
It was said that she slapped him because he hurt her pussy. I don’t know the language, but even if I did, I’m deaf and couldn’t hear it anyway.
I didn’t jump to anything. I saw aggression and I saw him assault her. I did not make up anything.
But, throughout your reply you keep making up excuses for him. On one hand you say you don’t condone what he did, but on the other hand there’s all these excuses for why he did it.
I didn’t blame Henry for supplying any pills. I only said he supplied alco hol.
The reasons why it happened don’t matter. What matters is that he was aggressive and assa ulted her.
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What part do you think is not true?
That’s easy to say afterwards but most people would stay out of another person’s relationship and they may voice their disapproval which Henry did saying let’s calm down, when she started raising her voice and he wasn’t even there when the guy slapped her.
I meant up to that point and I saw the slap, I just didn’t see that it connected and thanks for showing me that.
He didn’t hurt her pussy, he made her come and she said she didn’t want it to end like that and that wasn’t what she planned. Then she blew it up all out of any rational meaning and people were confused and laughing which pissed her off.
The aggression from him only happened in the video that you rightly pointed out before that there was no aggression from him, quite the opposite as he was calmly talking trying to persuade her to go home.
I am saying what happened from a neutral point of view by listening to what they are saying, these are not excuses they are facts. I don’t agree with any violence whatsoever but if you are not balanced in your view and deal with the facts and not what you think happened then one will always have a warped view.
I apologise as I misread the below.
Yes right at the end and I was saying what state she was in as she was hysterical and irrational rejecting with bizarre comments to all three of the people there.
You seem to have misunderstood why I wrote that in thinking that I am defending him which is 100% wrong as I am mearly stating what happened, as I said - from a neutral point of view.
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That’s no surprise considering the leadership of that country.
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