This should help:
Not simply a man who’s wife/girlfriend cheats on him, but rather a man who actually gets aroused by knowing or seeing her in sexual situations with other men, such as flirting, kissing, fondling or sex. In particular, situations where he is NOT participating but instead marginalized, just observing, or even completely ignored.
Does it fit Sebastian’s description ?
ok, I wasn’t on fuckipedia before, as I can see 
is not my category of films, so i had interpreted it in my head as ‘fraud’ or ‘behind the husband’s back’
100% yes and it was also stated by Seb himself that he likes watching Ariela with other men
If it was me, I would call a friend, (even if it was an escort) to spend the night.Ariella are very jealous.
Surely if you are paying to watch people having sex, it is a porn site by any other name?
He doesn’t appear to be aroused or exited about anything with Will from what I have noticed, just the opposite.
Likewise with respect, if no sex took place, you would be happy to pay a subscription still? Surely a “rose by any other name…”?
Nobody denies that sex isn’t happening or that is not interesting, but (for me at least) it is by no means the only reason i pay a subscription for.
Yes (I understand this as when we swing, part of our enjoyment is just that) My objection is that a lot of posts are thinly veiled criticism (not pointing at you) and some just offensive! They like what they do, full stop
Fully agree with you now, all that matters is that they like what they do and they are happy with this lifestyle
Sebastian didn’t look too pleased as Ariela left.
OK I agree with everything you say, but one part when was the last time he actually saw her with another man in the apartment because she’s been ripping and running with. We are going camping. If she’s not going camping with him she’s gone as we assume working as you can see as far as I can see this is the second time that she has lived like this, just after getting back and reached over to hug wheel wielding hugger I say anything to her, yes my opinion
Now this is just my opinion and opinion only but I would not be surprised if she comes home one of these times, and her clothes be packed because we all saw the same thing and this is the second time that I saw it and I’m done
I too am very interested in the psychology of it all (not just this apartment) so do understand
Man, i have never before and i will not (now or in the future) comment on them lifestyle and that’s because i do simply not understand it good enough and it is also not my business.
now that it is common knowledge that Will ( or roma as Ariela calls him) is Ariela’s love interest, it’s very rare now that she spends any time with seb ( noted that she has taken off her wedding ring also) either she is in one room and seb in another, or she is out of the apt completely, in the last few days she has spent less the fifteen hours at home and who knows how long she has gone for, now that she has gone camping with will,
Considering you like definitions, sounds pretty much similar to a porn site to me
A person who derives sexual gratification from observing the naked bodies or sexual acts of others, especially from a secret vantage point.
The irony in this statement is fantastic
I have followed Ariela and Seb over a long time and like them a lot, but have to say I have noticed a difference in the last couple of months. Seeing Ariela with Will it is different they seem at every opportunity to be in each others arms even in the house which I have not seen with another male before. Where before Seb might have enjoyed seeing Ariela with other men look at his reaction at 19.49 when she gives him kiss and his reaction, totally different to before and she knows. If he enjoyed seeing her with other men I would expect his reaction to be much better. This is not swinging as it is only one way and it takes both partners to swing and together. I think so many people have different opinions on this subject and are not sure Seb is happy with this situation, although how many of us hope Seb brings home a beautiful female tonight.
I got excited by all the new comments but it’s just the same drivel as always 