Some of your comments were probably deleted because you went against my advice a few days earlier. You also wrote information that was private, that was taken out of context and that was fragments of phone calls and conversations that you listened to… I neither reported these posts nor caused them to be deleted. This was obviously decided by a higher authority, and you have to live with it and learn your lessons from it
no. There’s nothing more to say about that. just simply no.
probably because no user made a request for it. I don’t care about the archive, and so I regularly forget that you have to let the MO’s know if something happened that was worth archiving. This is not the fault of the apartment or of A&S, but of us users
Ariela’s own article in the archive? are you sure? you know the facts too. Only positive things should be written in this house. No negative comments are required. There is no problem in other houses. Everything can be written. We will wait and see what has changed when Ariela comes tomorrow.
btw: I was also surprised by the message from Ariela. I had long since forgotten about it, but I have fairly current knowledge of Sebastian’s opinion on it… I can’t explain this difference
I can’t say anything that I haven’t read or heard about. They don’t write anything anymore. Of course, preferences may change or she may have had to write that article at that time.
Even knowing full well that they are not obliged, I am sure that with a little common sense, as far as possible within their limits, if they interacted more instead of simply taking it out on the writer, many speculations would calm down.
would it? We’re not at the anonymous addicts here, where everyone can talk openly about their problems without consequences… if they even want to, or can. Maybe Sebastian has his own opinion about the reasons, and Ariela has another, as is the case with almost every disagreement in life. In the end, you’re just causing a bigger problem with your ‘I want to know’ attitude…
Just give the two of them time to sort out their lives and maybe we can find out more afterwards. or never. Living in public does not oblige them to comment on every fart
Maybe talking to a ther____t would help. But if I’m honest: I don’t trust most people here to be able to do this job well…
I don’t think I said they had to talk about their personal problems. I definitely remember that in the past they just interacted more. I have the utmost respect for their problems and from what I see I respectfully try to understand their difficulties. That’s all I wanted to say
Furthermore, responding to what you write, I honestly think that at the moment, unlike Sebastian, Ariela from VH doesn’t have much interest and is more occupied with other things. I hope I’m wrong
but that’s exactly what it boils down to. Assuming the two of them would talk to us here more often… what questions do you think they would be asked? the one after their favorite meal? or the shoe size? Even you can’t be that naive
I agree with what you say. is it better if they don’t talk at all? There are many speculations being made. I think they can establish balance like in other houses. @JonR
Did they ask you to intervene on what he wrote? He may have been wrong and I’m not here to defend him but why must there always be people who speak for them?
If they asked for it then ok but it would be fairer in my opinion to leave the right to reply to them
And nobody gave you explicit permission to spread your strange opinions. So a counter question: why do we have to accept it without comment that only negative things should be spread?
Nobody expects you to accept our opinion, that would be too much of a good thing. But that’s the beautiful thing about freedom of expression: you are just as entitled to hear our opinion as we are to hear yours.
First of all, I respect everyone’s opinion and I hope you do too. I have not held anyone to account and I never will. I won’t ask you what to write. I just write about what I hear and see. Since they wrote and provided information before, I wanted to ask what has changed now that they do not write. I guess all you want is to write that they are so good, they ate this and drank that. But they are also private. I wonder what we will write here. Because everything is special. people already share their private lives. Isn’t the feature of the site to share their lives?
By the way, I don’t care if you are uncomfortable. I don’t like some of the comments either. But I don’t ask that person to correct his writings. It’s a different situation if Ariela and Sebastian report their discomfort.
