Even knowing full well that they are not obliged, I am sure that with a little common sense, as far as possible within their limits, if they interacted more instead of simply taking it out on the writer, many speculations would calm down.
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would it? Weāre not at the anonymous addicts here, where everyone can talk openly about their problems without consequencesā¦ if they even want to, or can. Maybe Sebastian has his own opinion about the reasons, and Ariela has another, as is the case with almost every disagreement in life. In the end, youāre just causing a bigger problem with your āI want to knowā attitudeā¦
Just give the two of them time to sort out their lives and maybe we can find out more afterwards. or never. Living in public does not oblige them to comment on every fart
Maybe talking to a ther____t would help. But if Iām honest: I donāt trust most people here to be able to do this job wellā¦
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I donāt think I said they had to talk about their personal problems. I definitely remember that in the past they just interacted more. I have the utmost respect for their problems and from what I see I respectfully try to understand their difficulties. Thatās all I wanted to say
Furthermore, responding to what you write, I honestly think that at the moment, unlike Sebastian, Ariela from VH doesnāt have much interest and is more occupied with other things. I hope Iām wrong
but thatās exactly what it boils down to. Assuming the two of them would talk to us here more oftenā¦ what questions do you think they would be asked? the one after their favorite meal? or the shoe size? Even you canāt be that naive
I agree with what you say. is it better if they donāt talk at all? There are many speculations being made. I think they can establish balance like in other houses. @JonR
I have requested the last time
at least one of us had his brain switched on at the time, thanks 
Iāve found the request and am trying to find out whether it was just unanswered or whether it remained unprocessedā¦
edit: apparently this was overlooked 
If it were up to me, I wish they would talk to each other rather than to us. or at least in that orderā¦
Shame. It was a perfect example of what feelings each of them have for the other.
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Did they ask you to intervene on what he wrote? He may have been wrong and Iām not here to defend him but why must there always be people who speak for them?
If they asked for it then ok but it would be fairer in my opinion to leave the right to reply to them
And nobody gave you explicit permission to spread your strange opinions. So a counter question: why do we have to accept it without comment that only negative things should be spread?
Nobody expects you to accept our opinion, that would be too much of a good thing. But thatās the beautiful thing about freedom of expression: you are just as entitled to hear our opinion as we are to hear yours.
First of all, I respect everyoneās opinion and I hope you do too. I have not held anyone to account and I never will. I wonāt ask you what to write. I just write about what I hear and see. Since they wrote and provided information before, I wanted to ask what has changed now that they do not write. I guess all you want is to write that they are so good, they ate this and drank that. But they are also private. I wonder what we will write here. Because everything is special. people already share their private lives. Isnāt the feature of the site to share their lives?
By the way, I donāt care if you are uncomfortable. I donāt like some of the comments either. But I donāt ask that person to correct his writings. Itās a different situation if Ariela and Sebastian report their discomfort.
We can always write to them and if the thread interests them they might reply but apart from what we see on screen all else is private.
What I hear on the screen is more special (because I know the language they speak). We should not share them either. It is necessary to establish balance. We should always say the positives. Life does not always progress positively. We will see in the future
Yes and no. the feature is showing life in front of the camera. The forum is a bonus that no one is obliged to use. and therefore sharing information is neither mandatory nor required
I continue to think that they should have the final say on the rules of writing and no one else
It is a choice. I think I have achieved that balance well . I write positives and negatives according to myself. Some like it, some donāt. But I never questioned the other comments I read as to why this person thinks this way. because itās his opinion
I hope they soon give us a chance to talk about other things because the only thing we know how to do with an empty apartment is criticize each other