He’s not crazy, but I don’t really know if he’s desperate about his own situation, with bad reactions, or if he’s trying to help in his own way. It’s just speculation, although a lot comes out if you follow closely. Like today, Ariela didn’t have money for a taxi. She had initially refused to hurry up a bit so they could go together in his car. He picked up Bo and Ariela yesterday. Also today, she informed Barton that she had accepted “an offer”. We only see the effects of all kinds of emotions, but as Ariela herself said, she wasn’t worried about physical harm!
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Oui d’accord, il n’est peut-être pas fou, mais son comportement il le fait penser à gueuler sur elle comme ça a frappé les portes ou les claquer, au lieu de parler calmement comme quelqu’un de mature. Après, je sais que Ariala n’est pas tout rose aussi, mais son comportement, c’est beaucoup trop. je parle du comportement, elle parle calmement à chaque fois, ça se voit qu’elle a peur de lui c’est pas normal.
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It is easy for most to see that Barton can act like an emotional child with temper tantrums. Ariela is keeping calm while dealing with it. Although he is socially awkward, He does not seem to be threatening violence toward anyone (like some on here).. I now wonder what Ariela is thinking “Of Her Man” 
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All this speculation should be stopped. Read a very sensible response from Bo after yesterday’s meeting. That says a lot about the problems!! 
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the key to everything is that compromises must be found together, not asked for by just one side… it must be done because otherwise everyone goes their own way… real relationships work like this… it takes will on both sides… I think that when you want a relationship that is different from how you are used to living normally you also have to know how to modify something if you want it to go forward… and it must work like this on both sides…
I read what bo replied to those who asked him for help for Ariela and it struck me a lot and when I say that behind all this show there are first of all people and not objects I’m not wrong…
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Hi,
Not that I know the language, but there’s nothing wrong with my eyes. My interpretation is that such behavior in the early stages will not go away. Ariela, take care of yourself and just think about your own well-being. Hugs
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I would never call Barton a madman either. Because I don’t think it’s our place to say that either. I also don’t believe, at least I hope not, that he will use physical violence.
But unfortunately, his emotional outbursts don’t inspire much confidence in me at the moment. Unfortunately, I also have the impression that these differences of opinion between the two of them are becoming more and more frequent. Whereas Ariela always tries to stay calm. But in the end, that’s just ‘my’ opinion.
And in the end, only Ariela herself will decide what happens next.
But as a so-called fanboy, you can get worried, don’t you think? 
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I just hope Ariela has the ability and mental strength to handle this and whatever comes next. I think Bo is on the right track JMO
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You’re absolutely right. Compromise is the key to a relationship. Just as there are always two parties involved in an argument.
I’m simply concerned with the way in which compromises are reached, or an argument (disagreement) is conducted.
I’m not saying that Barton is a bad person, or wants to be. And certainly we all get emotional at times. but we know that the person who shouts the loudest is not always right. Even if I don’t know what or who triggered it. Because that’s not the way to look for solutions.
That’s the only thing that bothers me. And then I just feel sorry for Ariela.
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Aproximadamente as 06:45 horas, Após uma aparente reconciliação, ela falou alguma coisa que o deixou fora de si. Ele deu um chute violento na mochila que estava ao lado da poltrona, foi para cosinha derrubou a cadeira violentamente. Com já havia dito antes, ás reações estão mais violentas a cada dia. Se ele retornar ao apartamento, seria providêncial, que a direção do VH se posicionasse a respeito. Tomando algum tipo de atitude, para evitar algo mais grave. A situação entre eles está ficando fora do comtrôle.
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Retificando, já está fora de contrôle. Só falta acontecer algo pior, o que se continuar nesse rítmo, será inevitável.
Shall we make a bet?
sometimes you forget that you are in front of the cameras because you are too used to what you do in this context…when I said that it was better for them to keep the discussions outside the apartment I was also referring to the consequences that could arise when I saw certain things that happened…sometimes you can’t predict everything but honestly Barton had several outbursts of anger even if not aimed at Ariela which several times were very evident and should have been enough for Ariela to take a clear position that had nothing to do with who is right or wrong but simply to safeguard the repetition of certain attitudes…I don’t think it would have gone further but they still shouldn’t exist regardless of this…
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Sim, o que tens a dizer sobre os fatos passados, e o que esperar do futuro.
Wondering where she is. Seems like she’s been away for more than 24 hours.
It would be better if you asked that question in her actual topic
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I could not figure out how to do that.
I expect she is still at work
I hope that Ariela, in addition to her work commitments, will take advantage of this time away from the apartment to clarify the problems in her relationship and that she will return with more peace of mind…
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