Bless your heart, thank you for making me feel normal.
I have just had something similar in the last year as I had a really bad case of Covid which left me with lung damage and only 70% functioning of my lungs, so as far as sex goes the mind is willing but the body says hold up.
It will take time for it to heal which it will and I am lucky and so grateful to have a very loving and understanding partner who I adore.
Just do your best and stay on your Medâs. Have a family member with epilepsy. Her medâs went up so she changed her diet and started some mediation in a quiet place. They have now lowered her meds again and she is doing well.
Oh yes. You described exactly what I am feeling. I want Elon 24/7 as I look at himđ, but body just says no and itâs a new concept for me to deal with.
Iâm so sorry for you having COVID. Itâs an awful disease, because it has lots of effects even after you get healthy.
Brain fog was the worst part of it as it lasted months and it felt like I was in the early stages of Alzheimerâs disease at the age of 46, and you try to do something and totally forget how to do it, like for example how to tie a shoelace. B___dy thing drove me mad.
Anyway, my insomnia is wearing off and getting tired and it was lovely to contact with you two.
My brain fog looks like motivation problem. Last week I sat on a closed toilet seat for 10 minutes, because I couldnât figure out what to do. Itâs the strangest feeling, when your brain loses motivation even in slightest things, so you just sit somewhere, empty-headed, like a frozen computerđ
Good night for you tooâ¤ď¸)) Thanks for sharing your experience, now I also donât feel as weird as I was feeling before))
@Sophia_Elon Dear Sophia, Claudia & Elon: We have written this before, but feel it is the right time and place to repeat it, just to remind you that you are doing more for some people than just showing good sex. We are a couple, somewhat older than you. In the past year, one of us has been seriously ill and has undergone a horrible chem____rapy as well as surgery. In recent months she has been getting better and better and is now on her way to complete healing. In our lives, we have rated eroticism, sex, and intimacy very highly. We live with a third person in a polyamorous relationship. During the frightening period of illness, and now during the healing process, we have found joy in following you because it reminded us of our own lives, which we missed. Anxiety and fear have plagued us over the past year, but your happy sexuality and obvious joy in each other have given us comfort and courage. Now we can slowly start looking forward to sex and bodily closeness again. We are delighted that you invited us to follow your life, and it has inspired us to quietly rediscover our own lives with sex. Thank you for that - you just should know that you have meant something to us in a very difficult time.
Sophia: We can see Elonâs love and human qualities as you describe. And we can see your and Claudiaâs love. We want you to feel better soon. Do not push yourself, relax, the worst thing that can happen in your situation is that you feel stressed.
This went too far, sorry for the many words. We just wanted to say that in this place, VHTV, we happened to find the joy of life that gave us courage and strength - because of you!
@Sophia_Elon I once had a relationship with a wonderful lady who liked to be submissive. She taught me that the submissive is the one who actually has the power by the act of giving permission. Took me a while to grasp the concept, but I like to think it made me a better lover
Sophia: You canât even imagine how much your words mean to me nowâ¤ď¸. To feel valuable to other people just by being myself is a great joy, and I am glad that your words make me feel this wayâ¤ď¸
I wish your wife to recover as soon as possible, I wish your lives to become as happy as you want them to be, and weâll try to be very happy also, no matter what happens to our health.
You are fully correct: the submissive controls the process. If submissive loses control(d__gs, a_____l), or a Dom takes this control from her, and doesnât listen to her special signals, it becomes r__e.
Sophia I am so happy to see this wonderful girl back She is always happy and smiling. You both seem to be good friends. Elon said she has been busy with her apartment and I hope we see more of her. I love this girl
Thank you for your heartfelt reply, dear Sophia. Once again, you give us lots of optimism. In our thoughts, we send you all our warmest wishes - from your friends in Denmark