He’s there, we aren’t… chill
I’m chill, whether you want to be chill or not chill. That’s up to you, my friend.
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Then why do you just troll comments and look for a chance to bash… I know you are @jabbath1987 fair headed step c___d, but really my comment was about being a decent human being regardless about what culture you come from, and you took exception to that. Tells me all I need to know about you…
My post wasn’t directed towards anyone specifically and it was in no way solely directed to your comments. I posted a funny gif of a guy eating popcorn in a car. I then thanked everyone for their comments. Please don’t take my comment so personally my friend. I merely made a joke to lighten the mood.
No I absolutely did not. If I wanted to do that I would have replied to your comment directly which I did not.
PS why bring jabba into this? He hasn’t said anything here at all today…
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Yes he has, don’t defend…
I honestly don’t even know who or what you are talking about now, my friend. Are you talking about defending @jabbath1987? The last time he made a comment in this thread was like 20 days ago…
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Having lived and extensively travelled in this area for over twenty years I am all too familiar with what @guvna and others are referring to when discussing marital roles in families here.
Things are changing, are far the Baltic countries are concerned, but the further east you go they still cling on to stereotypical roles as the f____r is the head of the family and what he says goes without question.
You said this as it was interpreted by yourself, no one else. Central and Eastern Europeans are some of the most intelligent people in the world and intelligence has nothing to do with traditional family values.
Interestingly, Russians do not refer to women as ‘the weaker sex’—nor do they think women are weak at all—but instead women are ‘the prettier sex.’ As such, women do everything they can to live up to that idea. Whenever they are out in public, Russian women dress pristinely, always in high heels, regardless of the weather.
The majority of Russian women devote their efforts to finding a husband and then caring for their c___dren. That is not to say that women don’t receive education or have careers, because they most certainly do. In general, though, most set aside their career until their c___dren are grade school age, meaning that they leave behind a job they might have had prior to having a c___d.
What you are witnessing here is not a true representation of a Russian marriage; it’s a game show (for the want of a better word) here and they are torn between trying to perform and living their life as a married couple, but still Troy tries to cling on to some of those traditional martial values as that was how he was raised.
However, it just will not work in this VHTV situation because those roles need to be maintained with traditional responsibilities like the husband going to work and providing for the family etc. etc., but he has got lost along the way and has fallen into the trap of inactivity by s___ping and sulking half the day, so he is sort of torn in two with no direction or responsibilities in his life.
@TroyFromRussia maybe you should listen to some of these comments from posters as they have a lifetime of experience and also a lot of them are said with genuine concern for your marriage and I might get in trouble for this but being on VHTV will not help your current situation - maybe you need to take some time off and focus on what is really important in your life, your marriage. You seem to have a lot of issues between you and Savannah and being on here will not solve them, at the very least take a couple of weeks off together, just the two of you and both of you need to make mature decisions about your future.
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@anon31605929 what i said last night which is basically what you are intimating.i think.
Whatever problems they have will never be solved in this environment in my opinon, they have to decide which is more important.
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It almost seemed that kostja and indira being around helped them when they were all living there
T & S had hours of quiet but tense husband and wife conversations.
I do not understand how that apartment survived that long after K & I - there is nothing to see there.
The internet world has a lot to answer for…WILL YOU ALL PLEASE PUT YOUR ELECTRONIC DEVICES ASIDE AND TALK TO EACH OTHER!!
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Why are you screaming? 
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Stop shouting. 
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It already answered, check your inbox 
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I think troy started thinking after last night, how to proceed 
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One thing to think about Troy is that you will find most of the people on line here will be supporting Savannah because they are men and they see a pretty girl one one hand and you on the other. Put yourself in our position. I only mention this because you may feel bad with the strength of the opposition. Don’t ignore , but think about it, how we see it and then TALK ( sorry about the shouting guys) to Savannah about baby steps how you can try to make things work. I say baby steps because you need to take it day by day and do a little more each day.
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Do you think Palmer is invited? 
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Yes, yes he is. He is the solution. 
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