But what I admire a lot is that they are able to live without a working fridge and freezer. Iām only able to live without a fridge somewhere in the woods.
Do they know Cupcake is up by the stove?
Thereās no cupcake there 
at least for now
āThe name Mobley is primarily a gender-neutral name of English origin that means From The Clearing With The Mound.ā
I think Tom loves Sara.He kisses her in the cheek and makes sure theās covered up
Sara ??
Je bedoeld San zeker ?
These are the guys who are the first to fall into the āfriend zoneā.
They invest all their attention and love in a girl for a long time, while she sees them only as her friend. Many of these girls search for years for their Prince Charming, meeting all kinds of strange men in between, until one day they realize they have had their Prince Charming by their side all along. But most of the time, by then itās already too late.
I have met myself in this story at least twice in my life. Madly in love with a girl, would do anything for her. But I was always listening to how weāre just friends. Finally, at some point, I realized that I had to move on. In both cases, after a few years, the girls were looking for contact with me again, I heard how they didnāt know what they had at the timeā¦one of them even prepared to leave her husband for me. It hurt a little, I know what he was doing to her. But I backed off anyway, burying it all in the memory of missed opportunities.
Of course, I can understand that. Our emotions are mostly shaped by the chemistry in our brains, and if that chemistry isnāt there, a guy can be sweet to you, but unfortunately, there will be no fire especially if there are certain things behind it that we, as the audience, donāt know about.
Donāt take my writing as a criticism of you. You choose the path that suits you, either way, our lives are like a ski slalom, where we meander between fate, agreements, choices, opportunities, and on and on and on.
My two examples are based on being honest with the girls, my only black spot was that I wasnāt interesting enough for them and the girls didnāt have the chemistry needed to ignite the fire. I donāt blame them, after all, my partnerās life has turned out to be a dream come true.
The only thing that casts a dark light on the whole thing is their choice in the future. When one of the girls you loved immeasurably finds herself in a rotten cage where the day starts with beatings and humiliation. It hurts because no human being deserves it, but it hurts above all because I could have given her so much more. Because, after all, in later years you are no longer making choices based on the chemistry in your brain, you are mostly chasing trains already in motion.
I found my wife after giving up and accepting the fact that I would stay alone in my life. Because from a young age, I dreamed of having a family that I didnāt have. To give everything to my partner and my children, that was my goal in life. But girls were looking for fun, excitement, and adventure.
Then she found me. No chemistry, no love at first sight, just two people who wanted the sameā¦ life for each other.
We got married two months later, to the shock of our families, friends, and acquaintances. At our wedding, they were taking bets on how long we would be together.
That was 26 years ago. Today, my greatest fear is losing her. Every time she gets in the car, on the plane, away from me. Because I know that that moment could be the last time I look into her eyes. Because she is the person with whom I can be the way I am. The guy who kisses her in the morning and covers her up before he leaves for work.
Itās not about what you do now, or what was in the past. You set your goals, then you focus on getting there. Because the journey to your destination will be the biggest, most important project of your life.
Or as they say here, you reap what you sow.
I understand. It is safe to say that he has gone way too far in knocking down your walls, causing you to build a fortress around yourself.
My tactics were quite different. Much more passive. I told the girl my feelings, put my cards on the table, then took a step back. I left it to her to decide whether or not to accept the card.
Sometimes they took the card just enough to cover their bluff. But itās all a matter of the experience you need in that slalom to get to the finish line as a champion. To be happy with the result.
Did you talk to him afterward, did you clear things up? Because if you two donāt do that, the friendship wonāt be possible either.
What is the nature of your living together? Do you need such a person by your side? I realise itās a business on VHTV, but still?
A wise decision.
It is also a good illustration of how the camera view, in the absence of other information, can be distorted.
I wish you to āslalomā as peacefully as possible in the future. If you ever have the desire or need to talk, you can find me on Telegram under the same name. Many residents seek me out, and we have become friends with many of them. Donāt let my profession as a psychologist bother you 
Yep many if us wouldāve been his shoes at some point in time. My opinion is that you have to remove yourself from where you can only find disappointment or heartbreak. I applaud San if she has been straight forward with him and been honest about how she sees their relationship.
@San Yes, donāt hesitate to confide your deepest, darkest secrets in the āpsychologistā you meet in a forum of perverts, myself included, who are all watching you with their dick in their hand. What could possibly go wrong? 
Quite a few people here know me, not just by my nickname, and quite a few of them have been helped, and with many we just chat, about the weather, politics, sport. No darkest, deepest secrets needed. With no real names, no locations, nothing what could bring anybody in some weird situation.
Sometimes just a small chat is what a person need.
Tom cooks, cleans, takes care of the cats and takes care of you He may have lied and caused conflict because he feels insecure in your friendship and his living situation. I do not think you could find a better roommate. People seem to like him in your realm.. Perhaps it would be better to try to make him feel secure in your friendship and that relationship wil be enough for him. He will eventually find someone who shares his need for love but you can be friends for life.