Right now Bella is talking to her councillor at least it sounds like it as she has a real calmness in her voice and Bella is really upset and crying, not really surpised the things she has gone through. But I know because of the little dicks that if I post that in her part of the forum there is the possibility of posts saying silly little actress and so on, just adding to the hurt. So I make the decision not to post because of the vile idiots responses. That needs to change and if people cannot treat others with common respect then they do need to be here that’s why I am strongly in favour of making the rules actually rules and not some hopeful guidance for people to follow, the forum has outgrown that now and if you don’t do something now it is only going to get worse and worse as people will accept it as the norm. And you are correct, I don’t want to part of something like that.