How do you know that they aren’t having an orgasm? You can’t always tell when women do or don’t orgasm. Now when you watch a porn sure you can tell because they “porn it up” and over exaggerate the orgasm. Real life it doesn’t happen that way, we usually don’t go out screaming and convulsing. Orgasms are typically more tender and subtle. There is always the whole squirting thing, but most women aren’t squirters. Most squirting in porn is just pee anyways. And for a lot of women who do squirt, it isn’t at the same time as an orgasm like a man’s cumshot.
I will say that there are some clues that an orgasm is coming, at least for myself. There starts to be a much more audible wetness coming from downstairs, my breaths start to become more rapid and shallow, and my face starts becoming more flush (I’m fairly pale so my face and neck become more more red). When I do orgasm with a partner, I do let them know that I am close, or tell them when I am cumming. But not everyone does that.
So I guess I’m just trying to say, the girls are likely having orgasms along the way. If you expect an over exaggerated orgasm like you’ll get in porn, you probably won’t see it here. But if you want to see real orgasms, there is plenty of that here.
Yes there are some signs like you mentioned, but every woman is different and not everyone has those same signs. Like I don’t have the twitching when I cum. I do curl my toes, have shorter breaths, and get flushed in the face. But not everyone is the same. With the toe curling, if a woman is wearing socks or under a blanket, it could be hard to see. I do agree with the discussion that some of the younger men might struggle to get their women to orgasm, but the older guys should know what they are doing. And the lesbian situations absolutely have orgasms aplenty (not to mention masturbation too.) I think if some women aren’t having orgasms, it’s just indicative of the struggle for men to give women orgasms in general, not reflective of some sort of rule on the site.
This is under the assumption that some of these girls know what an orgasm is and how they can achieve it, I would guess that this generation who has easy access to porn think that an orgasm is exactly how it is in porn video’s just like with the guy’s who think that the way the girls are treated in porn is how it is meant to be done. The greatest example of this is the cum shot where in porn videos they pull out to cum on a body part to show evidence that they have managed to cum and the participants do the same and also then they don’t think about health by using protection.
Looking at all the men in every apartment and the time they spend doing very little other than lying on their bed I would say they don’t have the energy to bring their women to orgasm. Don’t be fooled by the screaming, If you doubt me, look at the restaurant scene in the 1989 movie When Harry met Sally.
Lol exactly! Screaming is rarely actually real. Usually when I’m close, because of my breathing becoming shallow and rapid, it would be hard to get out any sort of scream. It’s hard enough to manage to say “I’m close” or even “I’m cumming” and usually they are broken words through my breath.