I understood
Sorry, thatās not the information I got from my Brazilian friends.
So you are lecturing us on the proper use of Portuguese and you donāt even speak the language??? Another who wastes space on the forumā¦
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Brazilian law determines that if a woman says no and is not respected, it is r__e, even without having sex. Jail without bail. Today in Brazil, with the Maria da Penha Law and the Womenās Statute, if a woman feels threatened with just one look, the perpetrator will be arrested. Touching any part of a womanās body without consent is r__e. The negative side is if she consents to the act and then denounces it, the accused is arrested because there is no way to prove that it was with an agreement. 80% of complaints to the police are womenās revenge, they concede and then denounce. It ends the life of the accused, because for the court what counts is the womanās word. Living here is getting dangerous. Women are complaining that men donāt come closer. Bizarre but true.
Iām happy Indira & Kostja found love and have a healthy relationship but man they sure turned into a booš»ring old couple with a quickness.
Itās a bit like that in my environment. Women complain that guys donāt even look at them, that they have been patted on the arse in the past and made to feel like women. At the same time, when such an act is committed, they immediately call the authorities.
We were talking about this with female colleagues a week or so ago, and they miss the days when men would talk to them, compliment them on a piece of clothing or a body, when they received an obscene invitation and they thought it was funny, or a kind of compliment.
Their emancipation and their rules have ensured that they are now shunned by men.
Even I, as an older man, would not dream of bringing up the old days when you complimented a female colleague on a short skirt, it is now all treated as sexual harassment.
Itās normal, when there is true feeling, sex is in the background. Starts companionship, friendship. Want to stop having sex, get married.
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Heās saying ānoā in Brazilian as āEu vou no bancoā / āvai muita gente no show?ā
What you are describing is an old person relationship lmao. They arenāt even that old or been together that long is what Iām getting at. There are plenty of couples on VHTV that have been together a lot longer than I&K that arenāt so booš»ring. Some of them are in monogamous relationships too.
But as long as it works for them thatās all that really matters. 
Kostja always has been a boob guy. I donāt think there has ever been a boob he didnāt like. 
I was ready to comment that, K and Janna were fondling Indira for a threesome. Indira didnāt budge. some time later K left and Janna followed, as I didnāt follow, I was surprised that they arrived next to the room, now the two of them are far from Indira. Itās the third time that K does this with Janna, twice in the kitchen. If Indira does this to a man, he breaks the whole apartment. K has to mature or heāll be alone.
I just donāt get guys like Kostja whom I will nickname the āthe Sneakā, when he has a girl like Indira next to him, he has to resort to feeling up a unattractive IMO girl! 
I think NotSeth hit the nail on the head when he said he was a boob guy, He seems to be fascinated by Jirinaās (āthe snakeā - not my words ) boobs!
I admire K for not trying to bring Indira into his way of life, but for getting into her way of life, completely unknown to him. With that attitude he went to hell and back. He did it for her. But now, he is acting like Indiraās oppressors in the Beginning. Heās learning too fast the wrong side of the environment. For Indira who suffered from Troy, Mikl, and Henry, K was a safe haven. But his attitudes are leaving her completely lost. I hope he doesnāt become like the others. if yes, itās the end of it. Poor Indira.
Nor is Indira some little angel with her blackouts and swing moods. How many times Kostja bows down to her when she has her lapses.
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Poor kid couldnāt help himself and slipped up, but at list he is trying to be good and moved over to the other very uncomfortable side of her to help his self-control. Very commendable I would say. 
I hope K continues to act like this, because Indiraās crises are caused by his attitudes. She is in the process of depression because of this. How Indira looked the day after the party, where she got injured, proves it. He was f___ed to take the initiative to place her hand on his chest and speak. Hours later she was almost normal. That smile and good mood and desire to have sex is fading. I donāt know how she will receive the photos posted here just now.
Why? If she is a normal person she will accept them just as Kostja accepts her making out with others.
As I see it: At the party where Idira spent the night crying, after she read a message on the phone, he accused her of having sat on Tejoās lap. K said she is cheating. At the party where she was dancing and hugged someone, he yelled and accused her of cheating again. They have a deal. At the party where she was injured, she threatened to change her attitude and K replied that they had a deal.
Indira is faithfully fulfilling the agreement, so much so that when she sees threats of harassment, she withdraws. She remains motionless at parties, only he manifests. Quite the opposite of Indira from months ago. She is feeling betrayed by his actions. He can she not. K is becoming authoritarian, he is yelling at her over and over, an attitude that is leaving her completely lost. Indira doesnāt want to go back to what she was and K is pushing her to do so. Like the others.