I am sorry that you feel this way, I see you sharing your lives with us, And I am sure you will reach the proper decisions for yourselves in time, I wish you peace and joy in the future. 
The question you both need to ask yourselves honestly. Are you both ready for an open relationship and under what conditions?
Here comes still (aggravating) to it, that cameras show everything and in the forum there are persons, who compare/judge possible appearance and “performance” of the persons.
I know couples where the respective partner (co)chooses the (sex)partner.
There are also constelations where later only told about it and the partner otherwise does not see. Also, there may be rules about what can be done and what not, be it kissing or certain sex practices.
The whole thing reminds me a bit of Kostja & Indira where little was clarified and so it came to tensions.
Doing the whole thing just because you hope to make more money, but actually don’t like it in your heart, is the wrong way to go, in my opinion.
Ben ik volledig mee akkoord .
Dat loopt altijd verkeerd , ( zijn te jong )
They only have one nonsexual friend and his name is John.
That’s ok, I think Harmony and you have real natural talent. Both of you have been doing a great job at acting so far. Your realm has become a very entertaining soap opera to watch.
GREAT JOB!!! 
Make your money and do what you want! It’s ok for you to tell people fuck off. Will you let keyboard warriors you don’t know from a can of paint impact your mental health?
A lot of them in this forum don’t have a life, and for some, the only authority they have is moderating and editing what people say.
Do you & fuck the HATERS!
Thank you Xavier for this post. Please try and get professional help by a counsellor I know it is easier said than done. If you feel tired ( leave the project if only for a few days go and stay with friends, re-evaluate your goals in life) Then you will be able to resume your life in whatever direction that you choose. Take Care
Many people here criticize the opinion of those who view @Xavier and Harmony, they do what they want, that’s logical and obvious, but it’s in our nature to give opinions and criticize actions, but all the noise started when Xavier said they were going to have an open relationship and that tells that on ny understanding is that he can have relationships with whoever he wants and she can do the same. But the difference here is in who can do it and who can’t, we have houses here that do it like Henry etc but they respect each other and the problem is that Harmony thinks she can get involved with boys so the relationship is open and @Xavier doesn’t, which isn’t fair and still causes a huge drama as if she were the victim. That’s easy, the relationship is either open or not! If they can’t do it because of psychological stress, then it’s time to continue with a normal life because the cameras are there but it’s still normal.
I think, as already written, that both (or only a part) have imagined it to be easier. But I personally think that neither of them is really ready for it yet.
Maybe trying something new yourself, but seeing your partner in the next room doing something the whole world can see, I don’t think either of them are ready for that.
I think both of them still need to clarify where they see the boundaries and perhaps also identify STOP possibilities if one partner feels uncomfortable.
I think you should let them decide what they want to do and not “f___e” them to do something they don’t want to do with pressure or the prospect of more money.
I am no telling what they should our not decide as this is for them to decide as i stated only refered the diference between them on the same logic off the open relationship thats all. We have to be fair on the same things.
And a good number of men, let me tell you (including myself)!
The man is gorgeous.
Sorry your going through that just focus on you and remember that u got a lot of ppl behind u and rooting for u including me sending positive vibes and thoughts ur way 
Don t read comments please!
