Dear @Xavier , let me start by saying that I have nothing against you directly, but with posts that mainly have the intention of making you share in sensations and thoughts that (from what I can see by reading the other members too) people outside the apartment can notice , identify and understand.
Sometimes being inside the apartment as a tenant doesn’t allow you to have the big picture, because you are in a tiny world exposed to thousands of people at the same time.
Sometimes being inside the apartment allows you to have information that we are not allowed to know.
I think the forum also exists to comment, advise and sometimes hurt if necessary; but not for this reason, even you who are on the other side and follow the Forum mainly as contact with the outside world or out of curiosity about thoughts about yourselves, must have the presumption of being right or knowing everything.
To object to what we write, we should first of all let us know about your “hidden things” (the usual phrase that you say “you don’t know anything”) because if you don’t explain the situation to us well and we will probably have a distorted perception of your apartment , you can’t expect our sentences on the Forum to be just “how beautiful you are” “well done” “yes I like it”, because from the outside what we see doesn’t seem like what you would like us to see.
From outside the apartment, what we write is what we see and then can assume.
So Xavier, don’t get angry at us by being arrogant and saying “you won’t be coming to the forum for a while”; first explain the facts to us and open up to us (which you have never done) and then we too can have a better idea of what we see.
You cannot expect to be understood if you do not make sure that we can understand you.
Xavier explained more than any other participant what the situation is. The reality is that you and few other life managing forum members, don’t want to accept it.
Xavier very clearly explained to all of us, that him and Fox are only sharing this apartment as friends.
in fact I wasn’t referring to that; if you read all my previous posts carefully, instead of commenting without knowing, you will see that I have NEVER referred to them as a couple, nor did I ever want them to be a couple. In my opinion, @Fox is too much for @Xavier’s personality and character and it wouldn’t be right for her to think so.
My speech was much more general and not limited to just one fact or sentence written in a post.
What I am referring to is the behavior and way of relating between those present in the Forum, both the external members and the tenants of the apartment.
Maybe that’s fine with you, maybe you just need to limit yourself to watching, but not all of us are like you and if someone gives me an approval for my post (and look carefully, even Fox has often given me an approval, so far from what you think I don’t think I am) it means that someone else thinks like me and trust the forum also as a constructive space and not just where we can talk about “nice tits or nice body”.
I frankly don’t like what’s happening in these minutes: I’d rather go and see the apartment and not see Xavier behaving that way with Davina. I would also like other things, I would prefer other things, a bit like everyone else.
My way to express my thoughts is only the Forum and so I use this.
Isn’t that what you are doing too, in the freedom that is given to you like everyone else?
All that we are all paying for is “watching”. That is a fact and not a “limitation”.
The purspose of this forum is to discuss what we are watching, and not what we would like to watch/happen in the apartments. That is life managing and not freedom of expression, and we don’t have the right to do it.
This is wrong. As i have sugested in an earlier comment, as a premium member, you can have these kind of conversations directly with the participant (if he/she agrees).
Ladies and Gentlemen of the jury… Please stop criticizing Xavier for inane reasons . Davina is not being traumatized. She is enjoying herself there. And so is Fox.
Yes always wips her mouth like that when she’s in missing around with him and she does like him again she is just going to take longer for her than it did fox
The facts have been explained before you’re just late to the party. You need to go back and reread everything that has been said because what you’re talking about has already been spoke about before.
You can be sure that he knows it. Just checking all his 45 comments made in a week since he joined the forum, and also take in consideration that this is the only Forum Topic where he’s posting, you will understand that he has a clear agenda. He’s not and will never use PM’s as they don’t serve his purpose of taking few others in his bandwagon and also not having the posibility of using the reactions his posts are getting as a defence/excuse that he is not the only one doing it. This is not something new and unseen before.
I find this so funny because what is the insinuation here? That we as viewers have a better idea than the tenants about what goes on in the appartment or their lives?
I’m interested to know when you think it is necessary to be hurtful but maybe this is a translation error so maybe some more insight is needed.
Xavier telling us that he is taking a break from the forum where he has people making assumptions about his life and his character hardly seems like arrogance
Good morning,
waking up this morning, I saw several comments on my post.
Although the saying “the world is beautiful because it is varied” I find it in line with this forum, I am happy that at least the comments on the topic, whether positive or negative, biased or more objective, may have made this forum more interesting.
This is what you think your comments Made the form more interesting no they did not. That’s what I’m letting you know. No they did not. You are sadly mistaken.
