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Well you are looking lovely - are you feeling bad because you are bored?
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tell us what’s wrong
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Last night, for the first time in 6 years, my husband and I argued.
I feel so vulnerable. I cried so much yesterday that my eyes are swollen.
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It didn’t seem like anything serious; in the end, we made up and fell asleep hugging.
But now I understand couples who argue constantly.
An argument takes something precious from a person, and it leaves you feeling empty inside.
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However much we love, we all argue at times and if the love is there, the bad moment quickly recedes. Celebrate the love and forget the argument 
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When we love it’s normal to have arguments, it makes us stronger.
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Thank you for the support, truly. I appreciate it. But I can’t explain what’s happening inside me.
I went through years of therapy after a breakup with a previous partner. It was a long relationship. My mental state is hanging by a thread at this point. Immigration, being left without friends or acquaintances… And on top of all that, I received the news that my therapist passed away.
When there’s only one person around you, all this negativity clings to them, and they walk around tense all day. I don’t want to hurt him because I love him so much.
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Yes, I agree with you, but considering that this was our first argument, it hurt my soul deeply.
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Which is understandable but no argument for 6 years tells you how strong your relationship is and if you carry a deeply hurt soul it’s impact on you can only hurt Jerno who you want so much not to hurt. It is not easy if that is how you feel but try to channel your energy that this incident has invoked into something positive - celebrate your love in some way perhaps.
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Thank you for your care and advice 
I appreciate it. I hope everything will turn out for the better.
And I have no doubt about his love. The logical Evalia knows this!
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It will - the logical Evalia will prevail! Take care
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It is normal for humans to sometimes be of different opinions.
The class imo, that diverts good from better people is the way how to handle it.
Sometimes one might want to convince the other of ones own view of things, but always should keep in mind, that he/she has the same intention.
Me and my passed away wife had a family policy, that we can argue and struggle all day long, with broken porcelaine and what not, but we’d never go to bed angry at each other. That guided us over 27 years, until she passed away.
Everybody has their way to deal with the problems of life. I wish for you both, that you find the one that suits you best. 
JMO
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Thank you for your support. As you’ve already seen, everything is fine, even better than expected. I’m sorry for your loss and offer my deepest condolences.
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I can only imagine how painful that must have been for both of you. Even in the strongest and most loving relationships, moments of conflict can feel devastating because of how much you mean to each other. It’s natural for something like this to linger in your heart, especially when you’re so connected.
What stands out to me is that you both made the effort to reconcile before the day ended—that’s a beautiful testament to your love and commitment. It’s okay to feel the hurt, but I hope you’ll also take a moment to acknowledge the strength it took to work through it together. Sometimes even difficult moments like this can deepen the connection you share.
You’ve built something truly special, and I believe this experience, as painful as it feels now, will only strengthen the love and understanding you share.
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Sorry for ur loss sending prayers 
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After rain, sun always appears…
After tears, always the smile…
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problems seems so small when there is love…
eros
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