Here, kaya.
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Hereā¦
Not nice of him. But no severe violence.
Thank you! Now I understand what you mean 
I think this forum makes viewers emotionally unstable and to much drama queens. Some guys needs to take a break.
Exactly, totaly different from Thelma case.
He still should be given a warning I think. Not a fine but a warning. So he knows it was not right.
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Orā¦some people donāt like any violence against women and speak out about it?
I find the description āunstableā a bit harsh. Concerned would be better.
It end up that one touches a woman itās being called assault.
Grope it becomes r__e.
Someone pushes and oh man some viewers asking to imprison the guy.
Donāt tell me that is not crazily emotionally involvement and not an objective and realistic view of life.
Cinderella and Isidor are completely fine taking care of them selfs. They are aware of their surrounding and situations. If they truly feel uncomfortable of something Iām very positive they can and will stop it.
Imagine if you are in a project trying to make a living, organize and and keep interesting evening. And yet worrying every second of how one person might over react or view something and than like a wave make a mess in the forum.
Is that helpful?
At least half of them are trolls who want to create drama. Then there are a few individuals who own the person on the screen and do not allow anyone to touch them.
But most of the ordinary observers express concern when things go too far. What touching is not. A slapping or a banging of the partnerās head up the floor is.
I have never heard of anyone here being labelled with assault for just a touch?
I suppose only a troll can do something like that.
Lets not blow it out of proportion. They were playing & arguing with each other on the bed, Cinderella pushed him away ( which has conveniently not been included in that uploaded video ), and Isidor softly slapped her, which is absolutely unacceptable, and right away he realised that he has made an awful mistake, so he started apologizing and kissing her. she kissed him back and they made up.
But of course the drama queens have to make a mountain out of a molehill. 
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Perfectly said.
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We both know so well that Telmaās episode didnāt started on that day and in the loggia, started way before thatā¦
As we remember, Telma was also also intelligent and āadult enoughā to stand for herself, and yet she was beatenā¦
To make it simple, the male violent dominant behaviour itās exactly the same in both cases. It is that simple
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I understand you feel strongly about physicality towards women, and rightly so, but both the incident and the immediate reaction from the participants in both events were not exactly the same
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Nobody said they were. Not sure if thereās a need to wait until stronger violence happens in order to acknowledge all the signs and condemn this type of behaviourā¦
In both cases the type male violent dominant behaviour itās the same. Identical, copy/paste.
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Nothing against you but youāre making me scratch my head. You say that no one said they were exactly the same but in the same comment you say they are identical.
I have only said that the type of male behaviour itās the same, not the events themselves
Very simply, he wants to say that with Thelma it was exactly the same, starting with a raised voice, a day later with a shout, later still with a slap, and ending with her head hitting the floor.
He wants to say that he is worried that in this case the story will be similar.
In Thelmaās case, too, certain people attacked those who expressed concern. It showed who was right.
The admins have repeatedly asked to be informed if something like this is noticed, because they cannot monitor everything themselves.
For this reason, I find the blanket assessment with the adjectives white knight and unstable inappropriate. I am talking about labelling everybody in the same manner.
However, I am aware that there are drama producers among us, as well as individuals who make an assault/r__e out of a touch. Unfortunately.
We have examples of every Ariela trip to the shopping center being marked as a fuck fest in the woods. Go figure.
Thank you for the help. Thatās exactly what my intention was/is with my posts. Unfortunately, my limited English vocabulary doesnāt help me much in making myself understood sometimes.
Thank you again 