I hope there will be some changes made to prevent things such as this from happening again in the future. It is all very sad.
To be fair @VHTV_James stated clearly from the beginning that the Leader title comes with no obligations. That if you are granted the title of Leader the person is allowed to do as much or as little with it as they like. @Bluewinner for example has taken a more hands off approach with the role.
I am not saying either of you are handling the role poorly, just differently. I think you both have been feeling out the new position and trying your best to handle the role in a way that works best for you. 
Not that my opinion matters any, but I hope you choose to do whatever works best for you.