Bella

Agreed, you only need to see the comments in other topics to know that this sort of posting is not unusual

I agree - I feel there has been persistent on line bullying of Bella on this thread by 2 viewers for some time - for reasons that are just beyond me. Whilst bullying is never acceptable, I object in particular as Bella is a vulnerable young woman who has recently experienced extreme circumstances of which we are all aware. In fairness, one viewer has desisted but this one continues.

Thank you for your support in this matter.

Your post didnā€™t share much loveā€¦ And thatā€™s good you finally deleted it. Thank you for doing this.

Whatever you act during war may seem wrong to others, but you are the only owner of your life, and nobody should be making others ashamed about staying at home/evacuating/volunteering/s___ping etc. 3.5 million people ran from the war mostly women and c___dren, would you blame all of them? I hope you will resist from posting something rude next time again and better find some words of support :pray:

9 Likes

Maybe we would better delete the pic to finally get rid of those words at all?

2 Likes

I, and no doubt @anon31605929 thank you for this support against these type of posts.

Peace Out GIF

Of course Kaya, I wanted you and VHTV to see this that has been happening on a repeated process in some kind of ill-conceived moral campaign against this person who is ongoing mental health care.

No matter what a person has or hasnā€™t done is none of our business and I detest bullying especially when someone is vulnerable.

I would kindly request as well that someone keep an eye on his posts so it isnā€™t repeated in the past. :heart:

5 Likes

Well said Bella needs all the support we can give her in these uncertain times.

2 Likes

walking away whatever GIF

Hopefully a last note to Bella on this matterā€¦ I am constantly surprised how many people use this forum and therefore you can imagine how many people just watch the apartments, in many cases without paying. With every 100 real nice people there will be a small amount of people who just like to be nasty. I guess the modern word is trolls. Donā€™t t_____e yourself trying to explain. The vast majority of us know from your posts what a difficult time you had and still faceā€¦
It is too difficult to completelyt ignore people like that in your mind but i really suggest you ignore them in print. From most of us you have all our support and love. Wolfie.

4 Likes

Bella, first time I speak to you here, but I want to give you my deepest respect for the way you handle your personal situation in these horrible times.

3 Likes

I have told you many times that explaining things on the forum is a shot in the knee. Donā€™t do it, because you will go back to ā€œthat timeā€ every time. I have also advised you to withdraw from the forum for a while. The divorce itself will be soup heating, let alone reading about your mistakes in public.

As far as we are concerned, I have been right about every single thing so far. I warned you months ago to stay away from Leo before anything worse happened. You assured me that everything was okay, that you had talked everything through.

At least listen to me now, or many of us, and take time for yourself. Leave the fucking forum, you donā€™t need to explain your personal affairs to anyone. Do you like being alone in your flat? Be alone. You want 5 men in your bed? So be it!

Remember something, for some you will never do the right thing. But do the right things for youself.

4 Likes

Glad you broke away from something like that. We canā€™t chat through the private message thing but if you need anything you can pick one of these comments and tag me. Iā€™m here for you maybe you can take him off your username too

2 Likes

well said ,and hope you ok now

2 Likes

the story of this ā€œladyā€ interests me as little as the fact whether a sack of rice bursts in chinaā€“

I wish you good times in new country Bella. I know this situation is s__tty and I am very sorry about your mom but I hope she will be safe and her health will get better and you will be to able to hug each other soon. It maybe sounds crappy but I would enjoy your stay in the new place as much as possible and explore it. Just be careful. We are with you. My UA friend told me she cries every evening and in the morning she goes to workā€¦ her boyfriend went to fight there. I know itā€™s not enough but we all are with you. We all love you more than ever before. And I love your voice and charisma. :heart: I hope all the poeple you will meet will appreciate it. And Iā€™d love to hear you once playing piano. :blush:

3 Likes

Then why the s__t comment? Just move along and no one would be the wiser.

I agree with you, also please excuse me if itā€™s considered a trivial matter and I donā€™t want to be speaking for other people but is a user name change possible for Bellas account and shorten to just Bella obviously with Bellas permission first of course

1 Like

Unimpressed So What GIF