We are officially married by documents still. We had a wedding in 2018 in Ukraine. So, it is a divorce)
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Okay, sorry I wasnāt aware of that. I am used to mistranslations being here in Poland. 
It must be hard then and only time will heal this, but it will happen, you can be sure of that.
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That was not important before - if we were a just couple or married people. But now when we separated, It is a divorce process officially
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I can recommend āCognitive therapyā as I went through that when I lost my company along with other things which impacted my life at that point and it teaches you rationalisation and logical thinking; tomorrow is always another day and today is just temporary.
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This is harder to do if the courtās arenāt operating as usual too.
spero bene per la mamma 
I read all the comments on forum, my āVHTV family on forumā who comment my life is important for me. I see myself here as a participant with voice and personality that I love to share with you guys (I am not a doll that fucks with tits and ass here in my eyes) and I love communicating to all of you)
So, I read all the comments and as I told before each good one is important for me. This forum and exactly my topic is a place for everyone to write whatever they want to.
I donāt take into my soul hate toxic or totally wrong about me comments 
And I treat even my āhatersā here with respect
I went through war and bombing all around, my mom crying from her bombed house, toxic relationships and anonymous or toxic comments from people here donāt hurt me even 1%. I have other priorities and additionally there was a huge soul-searching after the recent terrible events.
I never respond hate with a hate back. I have respect for every human soul, and understanding with a light smile on my face to the toxic ones. and I am the kind of person who would never allow myself to write insults here to anyone.
P.S. if anyone have doubts about my sincerity - I let you stay with them) I will never make attempts to prove anything to anyone. I only share my emotions here and then everyone have a right to decide what is true to the best of the awareness and wisdom of each person here on forum)
With big love and respect, Bella
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Sorry to hear that sending prayers and positive thoughts ur way and for ur mom 
Stay strong and stay positive
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Divorce is a big thingā¦. You donāt even try to save your marriageā¦. divorcing on small mattersā¦ 
well itās your life do whatever you wanna doā¦ 
be safeā¦ n happy
@jabbath1987 does this mean there should be less censoring of this thread and sending of comments to āGossip aka the holeā?? It seems like if comments in this thread are being sent to āGossip aka the holeā we would be going against Bellaās wishes.
Now I want to modestly respond all people here who were asking how to help or donate me a week ago here on forum.
I have borrowed a lot of money (from a bank and also my managers were kind enough to lend me money as well to help my m____r after bombing and for the long road from Ukraine to Europe (all prices in Ukraine for food, fuel, prices for taxis and buses at the borders of every city through which I traveled across Ukraine to the borders soared by 30-50%)
You can check my twitter - there all the videos of what has happened to my moms house and of all my journey to Europe.
Now I am doing everything to deal all of that. I am helping my mom constantly with Money for the food and medications. My mom was in a shelter for a few days, now she lives in her friendās house - which is a āshelterā and a save place for her now. Because she is disab__d she needs certain living conditions that are not available in volunteer shelters for healthy people)
We with my mom are am in a process of gradually repairing the house, so that my m____r could return there after the war ends and have a restored home to live there again)
I will be gradually pay off my debts now and will be solving every financial problem in my life and the life of my mom during the war that still going on in my home city, and if you want to support me by donating on that way - any even the smallest amount will be very appreciated my me.
The official way from the VHTV site to donate me - is via that button under my realm.
I want to point out that I am not begging for money in any case. I shared my story and only you decide whether I need help or not)
This post was originally created as a response to those people who asked me about how to help me financially.
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Ngl, the chaos and situations that Bella had to face in last 2 weeks or so are horrendous but as soon as she came back some of people here already couldnāt keep their dicks in pants and wants her to do things as before, i mean read the room, just my personal opinion, sure since she is on the project we all want those things but everything has a time lmao, if some of you are so eager to relieve yourself there are dozens of other apartments in the time being to go and do your thing.
She is seeing a psychiatrist as she described in previous replies so let her get back to her normal mental state, she is a war survivor, had to change the country, left her family behind, all those things affect heavily so itās not easy to just turn the switch on and go like before like nothing happened, there will be a time where she feels comfortable to be sexual again not now, be patient lmao
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I hate to say it and his delivery gets and F- but Torey has been right in SOME of his less than popular theories. He has also been very wrong too. 
@Bella_Leo I think Torey has a crush on you and due to his young age mentally and most likely physically as well this is his way of showing it. 
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i dont knowā¦ i am going to take my stuff and not come backā¦
i do not trust this situationā¦ i think people are being playedā¦ a huge amount of milking is taking place hereā¦
ā¦ you are welcome to delete my wordsā¦
but i am out.
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I donāt think he is a bad guy, maybe a little misguided, but behind all that bravado I am sure he isnāt a bad person. Forums will be forums.
When nothing works in a marriage why continue?
Both hurt each other for nothing.
Let the lovely Bella manage her personal issues. She is a good person and I think she is strong.
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I hope the war ends as soon as possible. Civilians always hurts in war .
Bella: sorry to hear that ā¦ you have my word I will never mention Leo again. Tough enough going through that process and then having it relived here. I hope you find happiness. Good to have a network of people around you in times like these.
It is Bellas topic. And I have a lot of respect for her that she also says the haters can write here 
. In the very far end these guys only show everybody what they really are: Haters and trolls.