Its a chinchilla and its something that Ariella does as well
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OK, well I was not aware of either of those things.
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but how long does this guest still stay in the apartment? If I may ask
Iâm very curious too. We will watch and see. I just checked, but it hasnât been added to the houseâs Participants list yet. His name has not been written yet, his photo has not been added.
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Pieter is the name agreed with Ariella, as for how long he stays who knows but he has put his stuff in the wardrobe and seems to know his way around the flat.
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Anyway, the guy has seen him in this apartment before but I donât remember whenâŠ
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I hope Sebastian reads these words. I copied them from a study by psychologists on the topic of swingers.
Swinging as a couple is one of the most widespread and practiced transgressions. Swingers, called swingers, are spouses or boyfriends who choose to give themselves to another person, together or separately, on an occasional basis. You do not have an emotional relationship with the outside world, but only a physical one.
As can be easily understood, the psychological dynamics that can lead to this type of eroticism depend above all on the desire for novelty and the desire to transgress to break the monotony of the relationship or, very simply, to experience something new. Furthermore, a form of narcissism is often involved, i.e. the need to feel like protagonists and dominate the scene. In fact, in a coupleâs exchange the other is seen not as a person, but as a sexual object, in relation to his ability to make people feel pleasure and satisfaction. It is therefore an interaction aimed solely at satisfying oneâs own needs, so much so that, if the exchange is repeated compulsively, it can be a sign of an inability to form adult and authentic bonds with other people.
Although the choice to indulge in this transgression is based on loyalty to the other and on mutual understanding, there are many dangers that exchanging as a couple can bring.
First of all, as can easily be understood, jealousy is often a problem. Even if you initially agreed or perhaps even introduced the proposal, thinking and/or seeing your partner with someone else can generate a sense of betrayal and disappointment. This creates a climate of suspicion, combined with strong anxiety that the partner may fall in love with someone else.
The fear of abandonment and loss is in fact another of the discomforts most frequently encountered in these couples. Furthermore, at times the experience can be unpleasant and you may feel angry at what you felt f___ed to do. Finally, it may happen that a form of dependence on this type of eroticism develops and that one is unable to experience strong emotions outside of the exchange. That is, the couple no longer feels excitement or involvement when making love in the traditional way and needs exchange as the only form of satisfaction of their needs.
Ultimately, the coupleâs exchange does not affect mutual respect and can actually strengthen complicity, if such behavior falls within the partnersâ value scheme; however, the risks are significant and should not be overlooked.
A friend other than you wrote this. I think this is Pieterâs first time. We havenât seen him before. They compared him to the person he spent time in bed with Ariela all day in May. I guess heâs a photographer. Of course I could be wrong. I am not sure
I read something in the forumâŠisnât n the same person who was may in this apartment. i remember seeing him in this apartment a while ago but only for short visitsâŠ(of course i could be wrong too)⊠
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Can Ariela give the most correct answer? Itâs also a very small possibility
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it would be niceâŠ
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nichts geht mehr. offline.
geht wieder.
La psychologie dont tu parles est certe interessante mais ne sâapplique pas ici, a mon avis, car nous ne sommes pas dans le monde rĂ©el. Les intĂ©rĂȘts financiers faussent la donne (ce nâest pas rĂ©ellement du thĂ©Ăątre mais ce nâest pas une vie âdite normaleâ mĂȘme si les gouvernements espionnent leurs citoyens).
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Is this a translation? In US English it is a contradiction in terms comparable to âthis theft is based on generosity to the otherâ or âthis sin is rooted in virtue.â Overall the piece strikes me as judgmentalism masquerading as objective analysis.
Just let the guy live his life without you f_____g your ideals on their relationship
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instead of doing internet research on the subject of swingers wouldnât it be better to let them live as they wantâŠ
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Everyone lives as they want and I donât impose anything on anyone. Itâs just a point of reflection that I hope will be useful in general and for them. Thatâs all without disturbing anyoneâs life
Yeah mate implying that they see each other as objects and that they are narcissistic is very useful and not disturbing at all. 
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