I’m not attacking anyone. It’s just the opposite. I’m trying to say that this constant complaining about Barton and other things Ariela does has to stop. It’s no longer things that happen but endless speculation without any root in the facts that we see. How would you have reacted if someone spoke out about someone who was close to you with backbiting, speculating about possible violence and everything they did was wrong. That’s what Ariela is living with now. Concentrate on the things we see happening. If this is not in accordance with Ariela’s own statements or violates VHTV’s rules, it’s perfectly fine to bring it up. JMO
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Mission well accomplished! 
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I honestly don’t think she’s seen it. She’s usually shown/enlightened by others, for example JonR, from what I understand! 
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She knows very well that there is a forum about her, Alek. She’s just not here for her “fans,” only to take advantage of it. Unfortunately, we have to be realistic.
You edited your post? To see the good things she has to read/see all what I call pure speculation and derogatory comments about people around her. She herself wrote that this was the reason why she wanted to stop reading the forum again!
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Je ne pense pas qu’elle est le temps matériel de tout lire ! (D’autant plus que tout les ans ce sont les mêmes discussions avec d’autres personnes).
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Yes, the translation isn’t good. I understand, but there aren’t only bad things here, let’s not exaggerate. But anyway, the least you could do would be to thank us anyway, despite the comments. That’s my opinion.
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you should ask yourself why…we are objective even though we have the biggest open mind understanding Ariela’s world is not a simple thing…all constructed? I don’t know but everyone likes her so much and there is no discussion but at the same time what she shows in a certain sense many times disconcerts you and inevitably you ask yourself questions to understand…
strategy to keep people where they are or a woman with so much confusion in her life?
I don’t know…
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Não existe comentários depreciativos sôbre às pessoas ao redor dela. Pelo contrário, os amigos sempre estão tentando apoia-la, principalmente o Will e o Sigma, como nos últimos dias. Ela é que não dá o mínimo valor a essa ajuda. Pode ser que faça parte de um jogo, o que eu não acredito, para quém chora tanto no ombro dos amigos, seria muita falsidade. Não com o fórum, que como você mesmo já disse, ela não dá a mínima. O Sigma não ficou ao lado dela esses dias fazendo papel de chato, mas, sim para defende-la. Até ele já deve estar cansado desse vai e vem dela. A auto estima dela, já deve estar na sola do sapato.
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I’m by no means keeping her up to date on what’s going on here. Why should I inform her about every piece of nonsense someone here makes up? 
Good snapshots or gifs… she sometimes gets to see something, yes.
But if there are legitimate concerns about her well-being that aren’t just made up but also relevant in my eyes, then I’ll definitely talk to her.
And as for Barton: she promised me that she’ll make significant changes, because things can’t go on like this. How… remains to be seen.
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I can only say that Ariela should and can live her life the way she wants to. Who she lives her life with at the moment is also entirely her own story. I don’t think there are any two opinions about that.
Nevertheless, this forum exists. Where everyone can express their opinion as long as they stick to the rules and don’t insult others. Respect should not only be guaranteed among the participants here in the forum, but also for the people in front of the cameras.
As we are probably all just spectators. And we don’t have direct access to the residents, nor do we understand the language well. We can only discuss what we see. However, there are many different possible interpretations. Which in the end are all just speculations.
And yet I still want to be able to express my opinion, for example on Barton, here in the forum. I don’t demonise him and accept that Ariela keeps him around. But as a fan, I would like to see another man at her side. Because I don’t think Barton would suit Ariela in the long term. Of course, that’s just my opinion. Not everyone has to share it.
Also that Ariela is no longer in the forum, or not so often. Could also have something to do with what she can read here.
There are many participants at Vhtv who do not interact with the forum. That’s not a problem for me. After all, she is not accountable to us. All the best Ariela!
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Ariella kann sich über Kleinigkeiten, die vom Herzen kommen, sehr freuen, vorallem über Blumen.Das beweist, dass sie ein liebenswerter Mensch ist, der nach Liebe sucht und echte Liebe braucht. Der Weg dahin ist nicht immer einfach.Ariela bleib wie du bist, denn so mögen wir dich eigentlich.
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so wie es aussieht sind sie nicht mehr zusammen,er übernachtet ab und zu bei ihr,weil er sehr wahrscheinlich keine eigene Wohnung hat.
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Since Ariela came out and said she didn’t want to read or respond to the forum, I took it as an example that you or others around her gave a hint about the congratulations on her birthday. It didn’t apply to other posts of any kind!
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It’s a completely legitimate wish and not in any way derogatory (and I share your view here). What I react to is when someone goes to extremes in describing him as a person and implies that he is a dangerous person. By the way, I don’t think, as someone wrote, that Sigma is tired of everything. I still think they are important to each other both personally and not least professionally (translated a little here it was about work and ended with a high five)!
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That was already my thought. And Ariela is a lovely and helpful person who doesn’t just kick him out.
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